stef rose

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stef rose@stefinitely· 8d

Truly bad day at work. Then @matty.wtf shows up at my house unexpectedly with a bunch of my favorite candy. I adore this guy.

Flat lay of the candy Matty brought: Skor, 100 Grand, Reese’s peanut butter cups, and Sour Patch Kids on a wood table, with books, a crocheted cat in bisexual-flag colors, and a purple foam cat-shaped dish that my daughter made holding the earrings I wore at for the backyard wedding last year.

stef rose@stefinitely· 26d

The basement gym isn’t particularly well lit, but there can still be a rest break selfie

Stef rests between weightlifting sets in a dimly lit basement, looking directly at the camera with a focused, slightly serious expression. She wears purple-framed glasses, a burgundy sleeveless workout top, and a smartwatch, with one arm resting across the other. Black tattoos on the visible arm include a goth-style pinup girl, a cat sitting on a crescent moon surrounded by stars, and several small stars near the shoulder. Behind them is a black-and-white mural of skeletons surrounded by plants, creating a moody, gothic backdrop.

stef rose@stefinitely· 28d

Sleepy Moxie!

A black tri-color Australian Shepherd sleeps with her head resting on a gray comforter draped across a person’s legs. Her eyes are closed, and her black, tan, and white markings stand out against the bedding. Another Australian Shepherd is curled up out of focus near the top of the bed, making for a quiet, cozy moment shared by two resting dogs.

stef rose@stefinitely· Jul 8

Finally got a haircut and some fresh blue! Cut off several inches!

Selfie taken in a car. I’m wearing pale purple sunglasses, a black T-shirt, and a small pendant necklace. My hair is newly cut into a shorter layered bob, black with vivid blue pieces showing through the sides. Sunlight is hitting one side of the photo, and the car interior is softly blurred in the background

stef rose@stefinitely· Jun 24

My daughter is home from college, so we hit the local record shop and walked the downtown car show this evening. Records, classic cars, and a little mother-daughter wandering makes for a pretty perfect little downtown evening.

The Social Distortion album – Born to Kill hangs on a wall on a white “NOW PLAYING” shelf. The cover features a roaring leopard in bold black, orange, yellow, and hot pink artwork, with small string lights glowing around it.

stef rose@stefinitely· Jun 23

@matty.wtf and I are back to lifting the heavy circles. Had to dial the weight back while we got our form back in check. Turns out I can still squat 75 lbs, which honestly feels pretty good for someone who took some time off and is decidedly 47 years old. And yes, my setup comes with skeletons.

Home gym corner with a loaded barbell on a rack and a large black and white poster of two skeletons embracing among flowers hanging on a painted cinder block wall. A small basement window lets in natural light above the poster.

stef rose@stefinitely· Jun 19

Panic shack was rad

Mirror selfie of a woman with short blue-black hair and glasses, wearing a black Pride graphic tee, black pleated mini skirt, fishnet tights, and black high-top sneakers with metal eyelets. She has visible tattoos on her arm and is posing with one hand on her hip.”

Warm-lit bar interior with exposed brick walls, industrial cone-shaped pendant lights hanging from an open ceiling, and a full backbar lined with liquor bottles. A mirror behind the bar reflects a neon BEER sign glowing orange across the room.

stef rose@stefinitely· Jun 18

Another day in the office. At least it’s Thursday and we’re seeing Panic Shack tonight. I’m a sucker for an all-girl punk band.

Selfie of Stef. She has short black wavy hair with blue ends, purple cat-eye glasses, a small hoop nose ring, a silver chain necklace, a black top, and a gray plaid flannel. She’s standing in front of a brick wall.

stef rose@stefinitely· Jun 16

Every once in a while I throw on Pete Yorn’s “music forthemorningafter” and remember what a great album it is!

Album cover for Pete Yorn “musicforthemorningafter”

stef rose@stefinitely· May 23

Life has been busy and a lot lately, but it’s Caturday, so here’s Charlie reminding us that rest is also an agenda.

Charlie, a tuxedo cat, is curled up asleep on a black-and-white patterned blanket. Sunlight is shining across her back, making her fur look glossy.

stef rose@stefinitely· May 8

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 29

New blue and a cut

Close-up selfie of a woman sitting in the front seat of a car, looking directly at the camera. She has short black hair with blue highlights, wears purple cat-eye glasses, and a small nose ring. She’s wearing a black sweater with gray stars and a star-shaped pendant necklace at her collarbone. The car interior and a parking lot with trees and buildings are visible in the background.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 25

Charlie, fully offline for Caturday.

Black and white tuxedo cat curled up and sleeping on the arm of a beige couch, with one front paw stretched out over the edge.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 25

Cody sits up like a person when he wants a belly rub. It’s very effective.

A tricolor Australian Shepherd named Cody sits upright like a person on a dark leather couch, back supported by the cushions, front paws bent at the wrists and held loosely in front of his chest. He looks up with soft, expressive eyes, his white facial stripe and fluffy brown, black, and white fur clearly visible, giving him a relaxed, almost human-like pose.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 11

Sitting at my favorite local record shop listening to two kids absolutely rip through Green Day. The kids are alright.

Two young musicians performing with guitars and microphones inside a cozy record café, with string lights, posters, and a front window behind them.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 5

@matty.wtf found the coolest place for lunch earlier!

Outdoor patio at a Nepalese restaurant with colorful prayer flags strung overhead, red planters, and metal tables on a sunlit brick terrace, with trees and mountains in the background.

Close view of a decorative prayer wheel built into a small shrine structure on a Nepalese restaurant patio, surrounded by red wood accents, outdoor seating, and soft daylight.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 5

@matty.wtf and I got dressed up

A smiling couple seated outdoors at a wedding ceremony. The man has purple hair and a salt-and-pepper beard, wearing a black suit and tie. The woman has black hair with blue highlights, wears purple-framed glasses and a black leather jacket, and looks at the camera with a soft smile. Other guests in formal attire sit behind them, with a stone building and wooden details in the background.

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 4

Wedding fit.

Mirror selfie in a public restroom. A woman with short black hair (with blue highlights) and glasses is wearing a black sleeveless dress with a subtle dragon pattern. The dress is fitted and paired with a wide black belt featuring double buckles and metal ring details. She has visible arm tattoos and is holding her phone to take the photo. Neutral-toned walls, a sink, and a mirror frame the background.

Downward view of one leg stepping forward, showing black fishnet tights and a black dress with a subtle dragon pattern. The person is wearing pink corduroy-style Mary Jane creepers with black trim and a strap across the top. The floor transitions from light tile to a brown carpet

stef rose@stefinitely· Apr 4

Caturday with my favorite little bed thief

A black and white tuxedo cat lying on a bed with a bold black-and-white patterned comforter. She faces slightly toward the camera with a calm, relaxed expression.

stef rose@stefinitely· Mar 31

This is a “we’re between washes and adapting” situation. Happens maybe three times a year. I feel like I am a pretend version of myself.

Close-up selfie of a woman in a car with a nose ring. She is wearing purple cat-eye glasses and a black leather jacket. Her dark hair is pulled back, revealing many ear piercings, and she is looking off to the side with a calm, focused expression.

stef rose@stefinitely· Mar 29

You guys, look at my new shoes! 😍

Purple leopard-print T.U.K. sneakers with black laces, black trim, and a low-top silhouette, shown side-by-side on a wooden table.

stef rose@stefinitely· Mar 28

Because I am nothing if not more than one thing: I’ve been looking for The Innocent Age in shops for nine years. Walked out with that and 200 gram Soundgarden today. No notes. #nowplaying #nowspinning

Two vinyl records displayed side by side on a black-and-white blanket covered couch with black pillows behind them. On the left is Dan Fogelberg’s The Innocent Age, an off-white cover with a small image of a doll in a dress in front of a headstone. On the right is Soundgarden’s Superunknown, featuring a dark, surreal image with a glowing red-orange face and eclipse-like circle.

stef rose@stefinitely· Mar 18

The blue is back!

Close-up indoor selfie of a person with a short bob haircut. The hair is black with vivid blue sections visible along the sides and underneath. They are wearing purple-framed glasses, a nose ring, a black knit skeleton sweater, and a long necklace. The background is softly blurred, showing a mirror and warm-toned room decor. The lighting is soft and natural, highlighting the blue tones in the hair.

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 28

We’re starting another Mideast war and I’m trapped at baby shower. Ugh. At least I picked the purple Converse.

Mirror selfie of a woman with black, shoulder-length hair styled with subtle waves and hints of purple. She is wearing purple cat-eye glasses, a black graphic T-shirt featuring a skeleton, and a fitted black midi skirt with ruching and a thigh-high slit. She has visible tattoos on both arms and is wearing mismatched Converse-style sneakers in gray and purple. She stands in a bedroom with hardwood floors, a wooden dresser behind her, and soft natural light coming from the side.

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 25

Moxie’s pillow looks a lot like my laundry

Close-up of a black, tan, and white Australian Shepherd sleeping on a bed, its head resting on a stack of folded clothes. The dog wears a pink collar, and its eyes are half closed in a relaxed expression. Soft gray bedding fills the foreground, with a cozy bedroom and open doorway blurred in the background.

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 20

Purple frames, red lipstick, gray sky. If this isn’t my final form, it’s at least a strong mid-season upgrade.

Close-up selfie taken inside a car on a gray day. I’m wearing purple cat-eye glasses, red lipstick, a black-and-gray plaid flannel jacket over a dark graphic tee, and dangling gold chain earrings. I have a nose ring. The car interior and a rainy road are visible in the background

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 18

Proof that once every couple of months I wear a shirt that isn’t black.

Close-up selfie of a woman sitting in the driver’s seat of a car, wearing reflective lavender sunglasses, a small nose ring, and multiple earrings. Her black shoulder-length hair has subtle purple tones at the ends. She’s wearing a textured purple sweater (noticeably not black) with bold red lipstick and sunlight casting soft shadows across her face.

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 17

Wired CarPlay failing randomly is such a specific modern annoyance. Everything is updated, restarted, reconnected… and it still just shrugs.

Screen showing that my phone is connected for phone and audio

Screen showing that no connectable devices are found

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 14

Happy Valentine’s Day, first to my very favoritest person @matty.wtf, who makes me unreasonably happy. And second to the rest of you - However you observe it, be it enthusiastically, ironically, or not at all -I hope the day is kind to you.

Two people pose closely for a sunny outdoor selfie in front of a silver Airstream trailer and leafy greenery. The person on the left has chin-length black hair with purple highlights, glasses, rainbow heart earrings, a nose ring, and visible arm tattoos, wearing a black sleeveless shirt with colorful social justice text. The person on the right has teal-tinted hair, a beard, and a black hoodie over a shirt with bold white anti-racist lettering. Both are smiling gently at the camera.

stef rose@stefinitely· Feb 7

Delaying the switch to blue until next time. The reality is the purple is still holding on like it pays rent here.