Cady Cates

@cadycates

She/her. 35 🏳️‍⚧️Queer writer, painter, dungeon master, lighting designer, and mediocre @ fighting games AuDHD, Trans, Poly, and an absolute bean. North Jersey girl. DM's open to mutuals. I block bots. MDNI Write.as/CadyCates CadyCates.com (currently down)

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Cady Cates@cadycates· 1d

Gosh I think we're cute. @megatheriid.bsky.social

Cady and her partner Jay going out for drinks. She's in a green dress from anthropologie. Jay's in a blue shirt and shorts. They're cute and posing.

Cady Cates@cadycates· 10d

It's not that I'm disappointed in you, I just know you can up that cuteness game if you put your mind to it.

Cady Cates posing with her phone, taking a selfie. Her dress is green plaid. She's wearing a cute belt, and necklace. Her iconic glasses. Her hair is wet. She looks disappointed.

Cady Cates@cadycates· 13d

So I can just wear leggings as pants now huh?

Cady Cates taking a selfie in the NJ mirror. Her tummy is showing through her low zipped hoodie. She's wearing leggings as pants. She's jewelried up and as always in her iconic glasses.

Cady Cates@cadycates· 15d

I am not stronk. But still feeling myself on the way to pt.

Cady Cates flexing and posing in black athletic wear, taking a selfie in the mirror. She's looking tough lol. Her tattoos are visible and she's in her iconic glasses.

Cady Cates@cadycates· 21d

Am I feeling like myself again? Enough to put on the dress at least.

Cady Cates taking a selfie in front of her window. In a green floral dress. She's wearing her iconic blue glasses, tattoos out. She smirking

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jul 8

First post op bathroom selfie.

Cady Cates posing in a blue dolphin dress in her messy bathroom. A plaid hoodie keeping her warm. No makeup. She's doing a peace sign.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jul 7

Got home from bottom surgery in time for my copy of Aftertaste by @emoria.bsky.social to arrive. Should I wait to read it? Ooooor?

A copy of Aftertaste, a toxic yuri by Emoria Weidner.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jul 2

At last my hospital room gets AEW

Cady Cates laying in a hospital bed watching AEW's women's tbs championship match.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 30

Much more alive now. And I can feel her shape. I can't wait to see her. Really meet her for the first time.

Cady Cates laying in a hospital bed sticking out her tongue. Her partner sits the background also sticking out their tongue.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 29

I lived bitch

Cady Cates in a hospital gown. He iconic glasses. Her hair is a mess. She just got bottom surgery. And she lived bitch.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 29

Les do this.

Cady sitting in a car holding her supposed hands. Wearing a cute deer T-shirt and get iconic glasses. She's about to get bottom surgery

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 26

I'm obsessed with this video my girlfriend took of me. I don't think I've ever seen myself so clearly the way she sees me.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 21

Pride today was fun. Met some cool folk. No one pulled on my tail tho. Shame.

Cady Cates in a cute tartan outfit with a pink harness and collar. Fishnet gloves. She looks cute as hell. Wearing antlers ears and a tail. Her iconic glasses. And makeup are on point. Taking a selfie in the mirror.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 15

I 💕 my partners.

Cady's partners sit on a large blanket looking out into pride and Cady lays on ones lap and holds the others back. They're all dressed gay af.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 14

North Jersey Pride is super "family friendly" so I have to hold back a little. I want to wear my new harness, but decided against it. TT. + A little bit of tum for you gals. Stretch marks and all.

Cady Cates prepped for north Jersey Pride. In cute pastels, pink and blue. Wearing her collar still. And a pink and blue plaid skirt. Rose colored glasses. Visible stretch marks on her tummy.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 7

When I first came out as a trans woman, my biggest insecurity in trans spaces was being seen as a tourist or something... like people would think I wasn't serious. How could I be? Have you SEEN my pre transition photos? I sometimes still feel like that. But I know I shouldn't. -

Cady Cates in trans pride gear. She's all pinks and blues and mesh, under a parasol. Wearing a pink collar. Enjoying the beautiful pride day.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 7

They said don't make it your whole personality. I told them to go fuck themselves. Happy pride. See you in Asbury bitches. (I don't think the hoodie is gonna make the trip)

Cady Cakes posing in an entirely pink blue and white pride outfit. Her hoodie says cake. Her skirt is pleated. Her collar and glasses pink. She's unstoppable.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 6

Do we like this fit? It feels flattening.

Cady Cates in a high waisted white dress in front of the window. She can't figure outt if she likes it or not.

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 5

I took this no makeup photo in one shot for a girl I'm flirting with. But HOLY FUCKING SMOKES look at my fucking thighs in this photo. When did I get so girl shaped?!?

Cady Cates sitting in her desk chair, she's pointing at her headset with ears on it. She's not wearing makeup, and is wearing a tank top and jean shorts. And holy fucking smokes those thighs be looking hot af

Cady Cates@cadycates· Jun 5

Reorganized the Gundam shelf. I can't wait to do my "security envelopes" model.

A stack of gundam model kit boxes on a bookshelf. On it are contained a majority of the gunsamms from Mobile Suit Gundam, the witch from Mercury. As well as suletta and miorine. Also a box of security envelopes.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 28

Lump removed!

Cady Cates in a hospital gown. She's wearing a pink mask. And apparently a little pink binder you can see the strap of. And the gown is green. She is sleepy

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 25

Never grow up.

Cady Cates in a pink plaid skirt, white shirt with a spider on it that says "just a girl" and a jean jacket. Taking a selfie in her mirror. Her glasses are pink just like everything else .

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 24

Tired and wet, but still cute.

Cady Cates in her garb, and cute collar. A ton of necklaces. Her eye makeup is on point. And her hair, blonde and curly. She's tired
. In a car. On the way home.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 24

Heading to the Renn Faire in the rain. Wheeeee.

Cady Cates in her garb. Fishnet gloves. Layers of jewelry. And iconic glasses. Taking a selfie in front of the window. Rainy nature visible in the background.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 23

I haven't posted puppy pictures in awhile. Lily is an old lady baby.

Lily, a dachshund mutt. Sitting on a hair covered blanket. Her collar is pink. In the background is The arm and leg of cady's spouse.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 21

Hair getting blonder

Cady Cates in a jean jacket. In her iconic glasses. She's winking at you. Her hair is blonder now!

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 19

Morning. It's too fucking hot y'all. Ignore my lack of makeup and messy ass vanity.

Cady Cates spreading out in her office chair. She's in a tiny tank top with mushrooms on it. And tiny shorts. Her ink is visible through her tank top. She's not wearing makeup. Her vanity is behind her covered in pill bottles.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 17

What do we think? Too much? I would go just the dress, no belt or undershirt. But my chest tattoo just got touched up so I can't let her get too much direct sunlight.

Cady Cates in a cute floral sundress a khaki belt. A white collared undershirt. Shes wearing all her jewelry today. Her makeup is done well. And her lips are pink

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 16

My spouse is done with my shit lol.

Cady Cates sitting on the couch taking selfies in a black dress and black and road choker, while her partner in a tank top laughs in the background. Her glasses are pink.

Cady Cates@cadycates· May 5

Just a girl