M. Xuan

@dominaxuan

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M. Xuan@dominaxuan· 21d

Thank you for the Bordelle, p

A mirror selfie of an Asian femme with long black hair, standing in a dressing room while wearing a red Bordelle set and round, gold metal pasties. The lightbulbs of the vanity mirror frame two sides of the picture.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jul 14

Serving rubber and restraint 🖤

Two Asian Femmes clad in all black latex. One is wearing a gown with opera length gloves while the other sports a catsuit. They are in a Chinese banquet hall, poised around a round table draped in red. There is an array of food on display, including dimsum, steamed vegetables, and char siu. On top of the table's Lazy Susan is the centerpiece of the feast––a femme submissive hogtied with jute. The submissive is also wearing latex as well as a pair of shiny black, red-bottomed heels.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jul 12

My latest Substack about my travels to TP. HCM and Singapore is now out!

An array of dishes displayed on a round table in a Chinese banquet hall. There is an Asian femme wearing black, opera-length latex gloves peeking from the corner of the image. Superimposed is a text that reads: "S.E.A. Travelogue, Reflections on my time in Saigon and Singapore, plus upcoming plans for Paris, Silver-Tongued Journal, dominaxuan.substack.com".

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jul 1

The concert was then followed by a visit to a late-night taco truck. While shoveling down my al pastors, I thought to myself, "Ahhh, I finally feel back home in LA."

Standing in an open wood crate beneath a spotlight, Rosalía is posed and fashioned like one of Edgar Degas's ballet dancers. From above, the crate takes on the shape of a religious cross.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jul 1

Got to see Rosalía live last night!! Obsessed with her voice, the staging, Yudania Gómez's conducting, the choreography by (LA)HORDE, the waves of bass blasting from the speakers and through my chest...

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jun 13

Spent my first night out in LA at an artist lecture by Panteha Abareshi, as part of the One Archives’ current show, NEED ME. A fascinating talk about the un-s*xing and f*tishization of the disabled body for the pleasure/use of the abled bodied onlooker and the ways their work subverts that.

A retractable projector screen sandwiched between a set of gray stairs and a black platform inside a library archive. Projected on the screen is a slide that reads, "Panteha Abareshi: On F*tishization and the Politics of Care; Need Me at the One Archive." The text is superimposed on a rainbow of colors radiating from the center of the slide. Between the artist's first and last name is an illustration of a wheelchair.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jun 7

My time in SEA is now coming to a close. I'll see you soon LA! More glimpses and insights from my travels are in the works––until then, vicariously enjoy Sài Gòn's cafe scene.

Oshima's in Ho Chi Minh City. It is a tranquil cafe with a stone path in front and lots of surrounding greenery. The building itself features a veranda with a glass covering.

A drink called Amber Meadow––consisting of earl grey tea, orange juice, cinnamon, and honey––on a small round table. The drink is garnished with a small yellow flower.

A mirror selfie of an Asian femme with long black hair, wearing a black tank top and shorts. They are standing in a minimally designed restroom.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jun 3

Hearing my peers' glowing reviews of The Maids at St. Ann's Warehouse makes my desire to see it even stronger. Hmmm, if only I were whisked off to NYC before its last performance in mid-June. Attentive playthings who've read this story of mine understand how significant this play is to me:

A photograph from the 2014 stage production of The Maids, starring Cate Blanchett and Isabelle Huppert, overlaid by text. The image depicts both actresses in front of a set consisting of a vanity and chair, floral bouquets in glass vases, and a long rack of clothing arranged by color. There is also a video projection upstage. Blanchett, a tall white woman with platinum blonde hair, snarls at her scene partner as she drags her around stage on the train of a red floor length dress. Huppert, a smaller woman with red hair, wears a maid's uniform. The text reads, "A Night at the Theater: A piece of flash fiction on the eve of my birthday in June!"

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jun 1

Guess who's birthday it is 🎂

An Asian femme with long black hair, dressed in a latex gown and matching opera length gloves. They are seated at a round table in a Chinese banquet hall with their chin gently resting on their gloved hand as they look straight towards the camera. Set in front of them is an array of dishes--sliced fruit, barbecue pork, dim sum. Splashes of red, from the tablecloth to the upholstered seat of the femme's chair, accent the room.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· May 28

Some of my favorite dates are museum dates! Recently spent an afternoon at the National Gallery Singapore with the incomparable @lucythemistress.bsky.social

Wall decal outside the exhibition, Passion is Volcanic: Desire in Southeast Asian Art.

A selfie of an Asian femme wearing a black woven top and a green satin skirt, taken in a restroom mirror. It appears as if they are in an endless hallway, a visual illusion caused by two mirrors on opposite sides of the room.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· May 28

Also had the pleasure of visiting Project X. Vanessa Ho, the executive director, shared insights about the challenges s-x and massage workers face in Singapore, as well as the advocacy and outreach that they're doing. Got my hands on a copy of their recently published anthology too.

A thin paperback copy of The Missing Anthology: Stories from Singapore's S*x Workers on a white bed sheet. The cover is an abstract painting composed of primary colors.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· May 28

A belated recap of my time in Singapore 🇸🇬 Thank you to the fellow Dommes –– @goddessashley.bsky.social, @lucythemistress.bsky.social, Mistress Wei, Queen Cynthia, Mistress Suzuran, Ms Lilith, Domina Delilah –– and subs who made my visit so special. I'll be back soon!

The Jewel Changi Airport's indoor waterfall, photographed at a distance. There is a wide walking path leading to the waterfall, with lush tropical greenery flanked on both sides.

A group selfie of five Asian femmes, taken in a mirror in front of a photobooth kiosk. Clockwise, from the top-left is: Domina Xuan, Mistress Suzuran, Mistress Lucy Khan, Miss Wei, and Queen Cynthia. The photo is satisfyingly symmetrical. Two of the five femmes flex their arm muscles while two others carry open umbrellas.

A group photo of four Asian femmes in a playspace. From left to right is: Ms. Lilith, Domina Xuan, Goddess Ashley, and Domina Delilah. All four femmes are decked in leather.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· May 17

I’m currently planning a trip to Europe this October. Should I also make pit stops in Boston and NYC?

A selfie of an Asian Femme seated on an upholstered Mid-Century Modern chair in a minimalist dressing room. The femme is wearing a black lace mini-cocktail dress with their long legs and bare feet exposed.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· May 3

The Domme, the space, the food

A selfie of an Asian femme, taken in front of a washroom mirror. An adorable neon sign of a cat reading the papers on the toilet hangs on the wall behind them.

An interior of a restaurant, it's kitchen visible in the back corner. A large display of natural wine line one of its walls.

A plate of smoked mussels with pan con tomate and salsa peanut, garnished with dill.

A plate of grilled squid with peanut shatta and watercress next to a serving of charred zucchini and snap peas with caesar dressing.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Apr 20

Learning about ancient petrified wood from the Chư Đăng Ya volcano

A collection of bowls, vases, and other household goods, all pleasantly arranged on a large, pedestal-like white table at Ohi Ohi Shop. At the center is the display are two medium-sized slabs of petrified wood. Due to high concentrations of calcium, these trunks of wood have turned ash white, with black splotches on their cross sections.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Apr 20

My time in TP. HCM is off to a wonderful start

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Apr 11

See leather, post leather

An Asian femme with lightly tanned skin and black hair clipped neatly in a bun wearing a black leather knee-length jacket, stockings, and heels. In their hand is a black six-foot bullwhip with its end draped on the floor by their feet. They are pictured standing in the distance amidst the brutalist architecture of the Westin Bonaventure Hotel. The femme is surrounded by tall concrete pillars that vault towards a glass ceiling. In front of them is one of several seating pods that line the floor’s circular walkway, each with red leather couches.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Apr 7

Always a treat to spend time with the ever captivating @cleoouyang.bsky.social and share what we've each been desiring. Now which dutiful s-b is up to the task of supporting our creative ambitions?

A classic dirty martini and a star anise-infused scotch whiskey on a small white table. In the background is a full bar with light emanating behind a wall of glass blocks.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Mar 31

Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa

Two Asian Femme Dommes clad in all black latex. One is wearing a catsuit while the other sports a gown with opera length gloves. They are in a Chinese banquet hall, poised around a round table draped in red. There is an array of food on display, including dimsum, steamed vegetables, and char siu. On top of the table's Lazy Susan is the centerpiece of the feast––a femme submissive hogtied with jute. The submissive is also wearing latex as well as a pair of shiny black, red-bottomed heels.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Mar 28

Major announcement: I'll be living in Vietnam for 1.5 months, starting this April! Read all about it on my Substack 💌

A cropped black-and-white photo of three young, female guerilla fighters in Cà Mau, Vietnam. Each gracefully balancing on one leg with their arms outstretched in front and beside them. Superimposed on the image is a text that reads: "Returning to the Motherland, How an upcoming trip to Vietnam became intertwined with the world of BDSM, Silver-Tongued Journal, dominaxuan.substack.com".

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Mar 13

Enjoying a day out with a screening of Pillion and some fragrant hojicha tea~~

The front interior of a minimally designed teahouse. There are shelves of various tea cups behind an elegantly pruned tree.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Feb 17

Happy Lunar New Year!!! To my fellow babes: Xuân chúc các bạn một năm dồi dào sức khoẻ, vạn sự như ý, tiền vô như nước nha! Literal translation: Wishing you all a year filled w/ good health; may your wishes come true and may money flow in like water! Translation for the devotees: Make it pour! 🧧💦

An Asian femme with long black hair wearing a sheer strapless basque with garters and seamed stockings. Their left knee is perched on a bondage, CBT chair in the corner of a room beside a fireplace. Two mirrors hang on the surrounding red walls behind them.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Feb 4

Just an off-duty Dominant getting a custom latex gown. Thank you to the good girl who made this happen ✨

A selfie of an Asian femme in a bathroom sink mirror. The wallpaper around the mirror is covered with botanical illustrations of carnivorous plants, flowers and reptiles. There is a gallery of mostly photographs featuring latex behind the femme.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Feb 1

Just wrapped up an incredible photoshoot with fellow babe @cococeleste.bsky.social and photographer extraordinaire, Lanee Bird! You'll be cordially invited soon...

A place setting on top of a red tablecloth at a Chinese restaurant. In front of the dinnerware are bundles of jute rope.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jan 28

A divine evening with one of my good boys–– Still thinking about this yuzu custard and matcha tart. And with his help, I have officially joined the cattle prod club. Thank you, g! you and I are about to have lots of fun...hehe 2026 is the year of more social dates 🤍

A dimly lit and cozy restaurant in the style of a french bistro.

A slice of yuzu custard tart with a layer of matcha on its surface, plated next to a dollop of vanilla chantilly.

A red cattle prod held in a slender and elegant hand above a wooden table.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Jan 26

Missed me?

A selfie of an Asian femme, wearing a black latex bolero and mesh strapless top, as they lean on a leather upholstered spanking bench. Hanging on the wall directly behind them is a leather sleep sack with lots of straps.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Dec 22

Emerging from my break, just to say: something special is coming in 2026...

Plates and metal steamers filled with egg custard tarts, siu mai and marinated chicken feet at the center of a table, amidst chopsticks and cups of tea.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Dec 11

Announcement: I will be taking a social media break in order to focus on some exciting updates & projects! you may still ring me on NF, please me with a holiday gift, and entice me to come out & play––I have room for 1-2 more dates this December. I'll see everyone else in the new year!!!

A selfie of an Asian femme in front of a restroom mirror. A bold and graphic mural, painted primarily in shades of red, cover the surrounding walls.

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Dec 7

Nearly 440 hours. An average of 14 hrs 11 mins a day. And a total of 1,000 handwritten standards. So proud of my chastity sub's accomplishments this past month, as she works towards staying locked 24/7 for me! Now what did she get to eat in celebration? 🤍

M. Xuan@dominaxuan· Nov 29

How you yearn to see yourself reflected back from the ripple of my sleeve.