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Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· 24d

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AITAH for “training” a guy “like a dog”?

I (23F) have recently started seeing this guy (26M). he’s super pretty, but he’s kind of emotionally unavailable and he’s alluded to an unstable/ unhealthy childhood.

for context, i also work w socializing abused and neglected dogs at a local shelter and i think how much time i spend w the dogs is impacting the way i interact w ppl.

when we were on a date i started subconsciously making mental notes abt him like the notes id make abt a dog. for example, i noticed when we went out to dinner i noticed he ate really quickly and was very anti-sharing (resource guarding) but when i offered to pay and suggested dessert it seemed to make him really happy and a little calmer (food-motivated); he’s really particular about his car (territorial/ crate aggression); he likes when i pick where we go/ what we do (eager to please), etc. so, ive started using the tactics id use on a dog w similar problems.

recently a friend (22F) pointed out that it’s weird that i keep peanut M&Ms on me w the specific purpose of offering the guy one when i see him, and offering them again whenever i can tell he feels vulnerable. she said that im being an asshole bc he’s a person, not a dog so i shouldn’t be “training him like one.”

i don’t think that’s fair, im not trying to control him or anything, i just want him to feel comfortable w me the same way i need the animals im helping to be comfortable w me. humans and animals aren’t THAT diff after all, we all just want to feel safe and cared for. the guy hasn’t noticed yet as far as i can tell. the problem is, my “technique” is yielding really positive results.

AITAH? should i stop?

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· 27d

"Heaven is not fit to house a love like you and I" ~ A comm by the wonderful @lby2k99.bsky.social !! An absolute delight to work with, they did such a wonderful job on the babes 😭💞

Auri (au ra/miqo'te, they/them) being held by Zenos (garlean/any) in the middle of a wooded clearing under a starry sky. Auri's gently cupping Zenos' face with their hands and a calm, loving expression on their face, Zenos looks up at Auri with a softened, flat expression as he holds them.

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· 29d

ROLLIN' AROUND AT THE SPEED OF SOUND

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jul 6

Spyro is my tryhard game series ONWARDS TO 3 WOOOOO

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jul 6

I hate you so sincerely Crystal Geysers 2 both on the ps1 and reignited NEVER GONNA DO THIS SHIT AGAIN

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 28

who knew this song would get a whole upswing just a month later bc of TADC (its a good song in general you should go listen to it)

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 27

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 23

one of Auri's favorite passtimes is grabbing their boo's face and giving them a smorch 😌

Bust image of Auri (they/them) with their arms draped around Zenos' (any) shoulders, giving them a kiss on the cheek while holding their jaw.

Auri (they/them) being held by Zenos (any) as they place a kiss on his forehead, Zenos looks at them with a placid yet content looking smile.

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 22

squishes them like a slo-rise stressball

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 20

No one: Auri in any dim lighting:

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 15

went to find The Grave w/ some friends and the mission was successful

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 15

Casually going through Spyro 1: man what a relaxing game Im doing really good on extra lives The Nefarious and ceaselessly hungering Tree Tops:

Cata @ 🦎💜🧄@leylinelizard· Jun 13

My "This NPC has buried itself so far in my brain wrinkles they've been OCified by osmosis" take on Zenos, generally hands in air when it comes to gender level nonbinary, overall not Redeemed but also just kinda winging it because wol partner says no dirt time for you nope