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Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· 12d

Apparently taking the 5th .. is ONLY allowed by a corrupt american president. 😏 #hypocrites #boycottamerica #boycottamericancars #buylocal

Donald Trump pleaded the Fifth Amendment more than 440 times during a single deposition. o
Deposition Details
• Date: August 10, 2022
• Location: New York, New York
• Interviewer: Lawyers from the New York State Attorney General's Office (led by Letitia James)
• Case: Civil investigation into the Trump Organization's business practices and asset valuations
• Only answered question: Stating his own name 12 NBC News +3

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· May 27

This is not ignorance, this is strategy:

gaslighting /gas lidiNG/
Gaslighting is a form of psychological and emotional manipulation where a perpetrator persistently denies, distorts, or alters facts to make the victim doubt their own memories, perceptions, or sanity. The ultimate goal is to gain power and control over the victim by eroding their self-confidence and making them emotionally dependent.
(M-w
Merriam-Webster +4

projection /pra'jekSHan/
Projection generally means the act of extending, throwing, or pushing something forward. Its meaning varies widely depending on the context: o
• Psychology: A defense mechanism where a person unconsciously attributes their own unacceptable thoughts, feelings, or traits onto someone else (e.g., someone feeling angry might accuse others of being hostile).

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· May 1

Starving is a choice, but not the only choice to choose. Before you starve, I recommend a book or two on how not to starve. People have lived for millions of years. Leaning on knowledge from the past is not a weakness. Free from the local library.

Catherine Shanahan, M.D.
with Luke Shanahan
DEEP
NUTRITION
Why Your Genes
Need Traditional Food
FEATURING THE FOUR PILLARS OF THE HUMAN DIET
Read by Eliza Foss

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 12

Something much darker, actually : #DARVO #hormuz #kharg #malignantnarcs 👇🏼

DARVO is an acronym for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender, a common manipulation strategy used by abusers or wrongdoers when held accountable. Developed by Dr. Jennifer Freyd in the 1990s, it involves denying the abuse, attacking the victim for confronting them, and reversing roles to portray themselves as the victim.
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The DARVO Process
Breakdown
• Deny: The offender denies that the abuse or harmful behavior occurred.
• Attack: When confronted, the offender attacks the victim (or anyone holding them accountable) for raising the issue.
• Reverse Victim and Offender: The offender acts as though they are the true victim, turning the real victim into the alleged wrongdoer. @ Wikipedia +3

Synonyms and Related
Concepts
While DARVO is the specific term coined by Dr. Freyd, it closely relates to other manipulation tactics:
• Gaslighting (making someone question their reality).
• Blame shifting.
• Playing the victim.
• Deflection.
• Victim blaming. ® Keystone Law +4
Purpose
The goal of DARVO is to diminish the credibility of the victim, silence them, and make them feel responsible for the abuse, allowing the perpetrator to escape consequences. @ Keystone Law +1

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 10

In that case … What say you, about these crazy eyes? Neurobiology or Botox?

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 7

He’s toxic ! Wakey wakey 1/3 of america ! 👇🏼 #kharg #hormuz

Characteristics of narcissistic abuse
• Lack of empathy: The abuser exploits others without guilt because they cannot identify with others' feelings and view people as objects to meet their own needs. e
• Manipulative behavior: They use tactics like gaslighting to make the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
• Controlling and aggressive: This abuse can be calculated and aggressive, and is often directed at family members and partners.
• "Invisible" nature: Abuse is often not physical and leaves no visible marks, making it difficult for outsiders to recognize.
• Disguised public persona: The abuser often appears charming and kind to others while being abusive in private, isolating the victim and making them feel like the problem.

How to recognize narcissistic abuse
• Feeling confused and isolated: You may feel confused about what is happening and isolated from others.
• Doubting your own sanity: The abuser's use of gaslighting can cause you to question your own memory and sanity.
• Experiencing constant emotional volatility: You may notice a pattern of aggression and control, even without physical violence.
• Feeling like "it's all your fault": A common theme in these relationships is the victim feeling responsible for the abuser's actions.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 7

Yes, he / they want this. My advice, stop trusting the words of a malignant narc. His actions tell the true story 👇🏼

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 5

🎩 #mastertroll #Iran #hormuz

Quote with a pic of a dog forcing a big smile. Reads: Everybody needs someone who can make them laugh when they think that they'll
never
smile again.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Apr 3

This crazy guy doesn’t want to be forgotten. Like a toddler good or bad, attention is attention. He will destroy everything on his way out. Godspeed to the world. #boycottamerica

A wise man once said.
Be careful who you let on your ship, because some people will sink the whole ship just because they can't be the captain.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Mar 30

💛 #knowledgeispower #read #library #books

Book cover
101
ESSAYS
that will
CHANGE the way
YOU THINK
BRIANNA WIEST
READ BY ABBY CRADEN

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Mar 30

#libby #read #library #books #free

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Mar 30

Cognitive dissonance explains most of it. Lots of info already avaliable #knowledgeispower #library #read #books

Cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort experienced when holding two or more contradictory beliefs, values, or attitudes, often triggered by acting against one's own beliefs.
Developed by Leon Festinger in the 1950s, this tension drives people to reduce inconsistency by changing behaviors, justifying actions, or ignoring conflicting information. @ Wikipedia +4

Key Aspects of Cognitive
Dissonance:
• Causes: Occurs when new information conflicts with existing beliefs, or when forced to act against personal values.
• Signs/Symptoms: Includes feeling "off" or uneasy, experiencing guilt/shame, needing to constantly justify actions, and making decisions to avoid discomfort, according to Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials.
• Examples: Smoking despite knowing it causes cancer, ignoring news that contradicts political views, or engaging in wasteful behavior while valuing environmentalism.
Wikipedia +6

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Mar 23

Hubris has spread all over america. It will be the downfall.

hubris / (h)yo obras/
Hubris is excessive pride, arrogance, or overconfidence that often leads to a person's downfall, commonly
characterized by a defiant disregard for natural limitations or human boundaries.
Originally referring to challenging the gods in Greek mythology, it now typically describes dangerous complacency and extreme conceit.
G Grammarly +1

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Feb 7

🤭 😂

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Feb 6

Ever hear of projection?

What does it mean when someone is projecting?
へ
Projection is when we put our thoughts, feelings, and fears onto someone else, like a projector. It's what we sometimes do when we're triggered. or in insecurity and fear. For example, my ex cheated on me, and now I accuse my new partner of being unfaithful, so l'm projecting my fear of being cheated on. Oct 21, 2022

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Feb 6

Most of us already know. Do you really think we are waiting for the pervs & liars to give us truth. 🧐 The truth is already there for all those who are willing to believe their lying eyes. #narcsabuse

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Feb 6

Some people like to be led, consciously & unconsciously. In the defense of frumpy supporters many of them are suffering from TDS. Better know as cognitive dissonance. One day, everyone will properly see the irony 👇🏼

Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS) is a slang political
term, not a recognized medical or psychiatric diagnosis, used to describe an extreme, obsessive, and often irrational hatred or criticism of President Donald Trump. It is used by supporters to describe critics who they believe are
"deranged" or unable to think clearly, often characterized by intense emotional reactions and paranoia regarding his actions. •
Key characteristics and contexts regarding TDS include:
• Definition: Described as an intense, neurotic obsession with Donald Trump and his policies, often leading to a distorted perception of reality.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Feb 1

She most certainly is just as depraved. Melania before all the work 👇🏼 #epstein

Frumpy & melania before all the plastic surgery

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Jan 24

Lesson 1. #DoNotObeyInAdvance Read #OnTyranny via your local public library free via the Libby app. All you need is a valid library card. 🧠 💪🏼 Knowledge is power !

DON'T BE A BYSTANDER
TWENTY LESSONS FROM THE TWENTIETH CENTURY
1.
Do not obey in advance
12.
Make eye contact and
2.
Defend institutions

small talk

Beware the one-party state
13.
Practice corporeal politics

Take responsibility for the face of the world
14.
Establish a private life
15. Contribute to good
5.
Remember professional ethics

causes
16. Learn from peers in

Be wary of paramilitaries

other countries
7.
Be reflective if you must be armed

17. Listen for dangerous words

8. Stand out

18. Be calm when the

9. Be kind to our language

unthinkable arrives

10. Believe in truth

19. Be a patriot
Il.
Investigate

20. Be as courageous as you can
SHARE THE RULES I ON TYRANNY I TIMOTHYSNYDER.ORG
CROWN

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Jan 16

Yes, america seems to have more than their fair share of malignant narcs. That’s why frumpy, is their king. They admire the depravity & filled with self-loathing, like their king. #boycottamerica until they get some help. #narcsabuse

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Dec 26

Someone is messing with your algorithm…. Clearly, not surprising. 🧐

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Nov 3

“These images are not just portraits. They are the ghosts of an empire, posing for its last official photo.” #read #history #books #Gatsby credit to @framedbyhistory on YouTube 👇

The finest jewelers, including Fabergé, created unique pieces for the ball. The cost of the costumes was astronomical. It was a display of wealth and power the world had rarely seen.
The best photographers were specially invited to capture the event. It is thanks to these photographs that we can now look into this vanished world. These images are not just portraits. They are the ghosts of an empire, posing for its last official photo.
But behind all this splendor, the shadows were already gathering. While the aristocracy danced in their boyar finery, discontent was growing outside the palace walls. The country was on the brink of a lost war with Japan, the bloody Revolution of 1905, and, ultimately, total annihilation.
This ball was not a celebration of the future. It was an attempt to hide in the past. The aristocracy, dressed in the costumes of their ancestors, seemed not to notice that their own world was standing on the edge of an abyss.
The Costume Ball of 1903 was not just a party. It was a requiem. The last, dazzling dance of the Russian Empire before it vanished forever.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 27

Reminds me of #harlequin presents 😂

Alpha Male Billionaire romance art cover Harlequin romance box set

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 27

“Our peaceful trading partners are not our enemies, They are our allies We should be aware of the demigods who are ready to declare a trade war against our friends, weakening our economy national security & the entire free world All while cynically waving the American flag” ~ Also Ronald Reagan

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 26

He really does touch their deep wound & is able to harness their rage strategically. It’s ironic, his supporters are most inflicted with TDS. He reck havoc by causing mass cognitive dissonance to control them. Perhaps one day they will read about it here 👇🏼

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 24

Nihilism a feature in those who have much self-loathing. Having never believed in the self … their life outlook is bleak, shallow, dark …like death. Those who believe in nothing, fall for everything.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 24

I was thinking malignant narc but after some reading …. I think sociopath is more accurate.

The main difference is motivation: narcissists seek admiration and validation to mask their insecurities, while sociopaths manipulate and harm others for pleasure or personal gain without caring about their public image.
Narcissists are motivated by ego and a need for attention, whereas sociopaths have a profound lack of empathy, a disregard for social rules and laws, and can be more calculating or impulsive.

Feature
Narcissist
Sociopath
Primary
Motivation
To gain
admiration and validation to prop up a grandiose but fragile ego
To seek pleasure, excitement, or personal gain, with little regard for the consequences or feelings of others
View of Others
Uses others as a means to get admiration and avoid feeling inferior
Views others as objects to be used, manipulated, or exploited for their own purposes
Image &
Reputation
Cares deeply about their public image and works to maintain a well-crafted one
Often disregards social norms and has little concern for what others think of them, which may lead to a history of illegal or antisocial behavior

Empathy &
Lacks
Lacks a
Conscience
Response to Rules
empathy and may be selfish, but can be motivated to stop before a personal cost becomes too great
May bend or break rules if it serves their ego, but is aware of
consequences
conscience and empathy;
hurting others may be a source of pleasure
Will disregard rules and laws, showing a persistent
pattern of rule-breaking
Behavioral
Style
Manipulative behaviors are often aimed at controlling how others see them; can feign empathy
More cunning and potentially cruel manipulation, but can also be impulsive and aggressive; has no use for feigning empathy
Q narcissist vs sociopath

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 19

#Toronto #Canada 🐸 #nokings #prodemocracy

Peaceful protesters dressed in Portland frog costumes in front of the U.S. embassy in Toronto Canada

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 19

The Portland frog has inspired all across the world 🙂 #nokings #notyrannts

Image of Oct 18 2025 no kings no tyrants protest.

Collaboration not confrontation for the benefit of humanity 💛@mare1972· Oct 4

america is in the “Let them eat cake” stage for reals. #trumpAntoinette #OnTyranny Lesson 16. Learn from peers in other countries.