This new @signal.org feature for automatic key verification is technically very cool but it changes nothing about how most people should use the app. If you care about privacy, continue to manually verify Safety Numbers with important contacts like family, clients, or colleagues as I describe here:

If you keep $ZEC in the @zodl.com wallet app, it's time to update again. This is important: you'll be presented with a migration wizard to move your money from Orchard to Ironwood, the newest and most heavily secured @z.cash pool yet. zodl.com/zodl-3-9-0-i... Your iOS app will be at version 3.9.1.

The only reason I'm ever doing this is after your deposit hits my crypto wallet. 😇 But once that's taken care of, I really enjoy taking care of you. 😈

My rates are very clearly posted, yet I had two (thankfully polite) guys inquire about dates for later this week, only to back out citing their budget. Not being able to afford me is not a moral failing but taking my attention away from those who can won't endear you to me. Save up, THEN write me!

At the center of cis people's misunderstanding and thus hatred of trans people is the belief that we are only "sometimes" doing instead of always being that which we claim. Here's a thread in which I explain that difference to a man while I was covered in cum at a sex club: bsky.app/profile/viol...

Does anyone else find it fitting that today is International Cat Day 🐈 and also International Swingers Day 🍍 or is that something only cat girls notice? (I'm cat girls.) 🍍🐈

Necro-posting this from last year, For Reasons. 🥰

Highly relatable content, as my presence also reduces stress and increases oxytocin levels, bee tee dubs. 😸🐾💜

Clients, did you know I maintain a list of Bluesky baddies who say they take crypto? go.bsky.app/RXpNQMd And I keep finding or actively teaching more hotties how to do this to the point that I now know like a dozen more who don't even have socials. Is it time for a dedicated list on my own site?

Thank goodness everyone always listens to sex workers, trans people, women, and especially trans femme sex workers when we raise alarm about new "child safety" laws and puritanical moral crusades! 💕☺️👍🏻

🗣️ This. 🗣️ Whole. 🗣️ Thread. 🥵

Theme party idea.

I think I meant #WagonWednesday 🤦🏻‍♀️ look you guys I'm not actually an influencer I just play one on the Intertubes. Just book me and let's get the hell off of our phones. 🙂‍↕️

At one point during his reverie, @awaywithavery.com asked him what he was fantasizing about. "Nothing," he said. "You've never fantasized about being with two beautiful women like us?" I asked. "It's not a fantasy," he said. "It's reality!" (It was perhaps the single best duo moment I've had. 😁)

Felt this in my bonezzzzzzz. Seven boyfriends who take care of me >>>>> one Prince who thought kissing me in my sleep was a good way to introduce himself.

Yes, darling, I have so many exciting things planned for us. 😏

She deserves literally everything on this list❣️❣️❣️

Omg who's taking me back to Berlin (yes, again) for this exhibition about sex work/ers? www.bundeskunsthalle.de/ausstellungen It looks INCREDIBLE. (And I already miss the Berliner vibe! 😭)

Believe it or not I meet about half (50%!) of my clients offline. (We met at a bar.) My newest told me he kept getting scammed online so stopped trying to book trans girls online. He'd never heard of @tryst.link, and never read (or even searched the web) for "how to book" providers. Guys, look. 🧵

I was feeling a little blue, so he came, which turned me on. 💙💡😉

@awaywithavery.com was right, and now I've spent most of this fine day sobbing by a lakeshore reading this book. @cuteflesh.bsky.social has instantly become my new favorite writer. The new Julia Serano, hands down. Nothing I've ever read, seen, or heard before has ever made me cry so much so fast.

One thing that really confuses me is the ego attached to self-imposed victimhood. You can keep choosing struggle, endlessly being put on the defensive, choosing to beg for permission, empowering gatekeepers you hate, taking unnecessary risk after risk… …or you can just, y'know, adopt a solution? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Tired: pay for play. Wired: pay for presence. He said "if you wanna fuck someone because you like them, let me know," and I've never been more offended. Sir, I only fuck people I like. I ignore more people in an hour than you talk to in weeks. You pay for my yes because my yes is what's valuable.

If you feel some kinda fucked up way about paying for sex, you need to stop messaging sex workers and start messaging with a sex work friendly therapist. (Also, pay that therapist, ofc.) Or, if a good therapist like that is too hard to find (can legit be a struggle) at least go watch Paying For It.

Last weekend in Aspen was really fun, y'all. ☺️♨️ I will almost never pass up an opportunity to get warm and wet!

I think I might start sending this link (and only this link) back to any guys who try negging me with, "How do I know you're real?" tryst.link/blog/author/... No other words. No long-winded explanations. No excuses. 🙂‍↔️

☺️ It's true! I fearlessly publish a unique, dedicated @z.cash address so anyone can send me $ZEC any time. I call it my "donation" address: VioletRollergirl.com#links-zcash This is safe because it can't be blocked, nor can analysis of the blockchain correlate a given transaction with a send to me.

The 2nd post in my cryptocurrency series for @tryst.link is up now: tryst.link/blog/how-cry... This one goes into initial detail on why using privacy coins such as @z.cash with self-custodial wallet apps like @zodl.com and NOT exchange accounts like CashApp or Coinbase is important for sex workers.

Something I want to clarify: I don't work for @z.cash, like, at all. I'm not on payroll. I don't report to anyone! I don't want to! I do win some grants to do education and get occasional donations to show up and socialize at events because I'm an effective evangelist and highly credible messenger.

My cryptocurrency guides are not just for sex workers and creators; clients and customers benefit from taking my advice, too. For a quick overview, read my writing in the @tryst.link Blog: tryst.link/blog/why-im-... For even more detail now, peruse my Resources page: VioletRollergirl.com/resources