_______________________________

@filipamv

perfect and upright, eschews evil (she/they)

246 Siguiendo457 Seguidores2463 Publicaciones

Bluesky

¿Es tu perfil?Reclámalo y filipamv.dirty.social es tuyo.Reclamar perfil

_______________________________@filipamv· 29d

i feel obliged to quote the original here: pbs.twimg.com/media/C_PE9s...

crushingbort tweet from 2014:

hmm well I'd say I'm fiscally conservative but socially very liberal. the problems are bad but their causes...their causes are
very good

_______________________________@filipamv· Jul 11

which makes sense given that the negative associations with “gossip” is essentially a form of misogyny - those women can’t be up to anything good!

The word is from Old English godsibb, from god and sibb, the term for the godparents of one's child or the parents of one's godchild, generally very close friends. In the 16th century, the word assumed the meaning of a person, mostly a woman, one who delights in idle talk, a newsmonger, a tattler.[3] In the early 19th century, the term was extended from the talker to the conversation of such persons. The verb to gossip, meaning "to be a gossip", first appears in the writings of Shakespeare.[4]

The term originates from the bedroom at the time of childbirth. Giving birth used to be a social event exclusively attended by women. The pregnant woman's female relatives and neighbors would congregate and idly converse. In the Middle Ages, "a gossip" referred to a community of tight-knit friendships between women.[5] Over time, gossip came to mean talk of others.[6]

_______________________________@filipamv· Jul 7

it’s a coincidence this arrived right after they won 4-1 but i have nothing but pride for my team

a tall leggy woman takes a mirror selfie while wearing sporty exercise shorts and the belgium national team’s 2026 away jersey, which is blue and pink and white (the trans flag colours)

_______________________________@filipamv· Jul 4

yeah i used to be that kind of cis guy lol who thought he was comfortable in his sexuality and gender except “i’d never pass so it’s not even an option” turned out to be so incredibly load bearing i didn’t even know it was there

two bluesky posts. top one reads:

Cis dude here, can confirm.

I questioned my gender plenty - questioned my performance of it, how I interacted with the world, what was comfortable, what I'd change if I could. I have anxiety, and I ruminate on things, so l spent more time than most.
It's been ~a few days in 30 years.

inner post reads:

I don't know who needs to hear this, but people who are cis don't spend a lot of time wondering if they're trans

_______________________________@filipamv· Jul 2

i’m thinking tucked in with black lipstick could be A Look

the belgium away jersey is an homage to magritte and features surreal circles in blue white and pink

_______________________________@filipamv· Jun 30

isn’t rufo the guy who rather famously is a) categorically evil and b) gloats about how he places stories in the media in bad faith in order to amplify his propaganda? are these people incapable of introspection? is everything going to be like this now?

_______________________________@filipamv· Jun 27

a picture of downtown toronto with thousands of people marching down yonge street. text overlaid reads:

i love pride
i love the trans march

every year i go:
THERE'S SO MANY OF US

i do not regret to inform you that
we're going to win

_______________________________@filipamv· Jun 2

i'm old & out of touch so my source is watching the cool queer girlies at the underground dance parties i go to every weekend. the look rn is more floor-length baggy w/faux utility. i googled around to find examples, see pix from this article dated march 2026 www.nssgclub.com/en/beauty/44...

a woman leans into a cargo van sporting a sparkly form fitting sleeveless crop top and baggy elaborate cargo pants with superfluous pockets

a woman wearing a swimming top as a bra is wearing green knee high pants with cargo pockets on the side

_______________________________@filipamv· May 23

quick question: does anyone know how to send a photo back in time?

A woman facing a mirror takes a photo; I look and feel attractive 😌.

_______________________________@filipamv· May 14

we got cars plowing into daycares during rush hour in my neighbourhood it’s great!

a picture of a fence of an outdoor playground by a school along college st; the fence is busted, and covered up with police tape, because a car drove into it. you can still see the tire marks leading into the fence

a freshly busted bus shelter, taped off with emergency tape. a car smashed into the bus shelter then careened into the daycare fence from the previous picture, which you can just about see in this photo

_______________________________@filipamv· May 12

of course well-meaning cis folk in the replies gotta hit us with the “male socialization” trope. i love being considered to be lesser-then! it feels great to be told your experience is inherently less valid or trustworthy!

_______________________________@filipamv· May 5

please i’m begging you shut up about the guy with brain worms who obviously thrives on negative attention

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 29

o assassinio não basta, esta gente também tem que estar sempre a gozar. eu nunca o tenho lido mas até eu sei que o desespero é um tema comum nas obras do JM Coetze; para ela escrever isto é a mandar vir

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 28

what a moral void this guy is

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 26

metal L brackets and two by fours gave us this; the boards are a bit bendy but it’s been five years

a custom made in the most half ass way possible bookshelf here depicting books sorted in rainbow order

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 26

i went digging thru the piece to see if i wasn’t misremembering but (snippet 1) i’d describe that *vision* as a flattening and hadn’t realized (snippet 2) nilay had explicitly used “flattening”

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 16

These are not reasons!!! ”normal git with libc compiled to wasm is too big”, that’s a reason, but we’re not given that. These are tautologies. Did an LLM write this? also i have bad news about using libgit2 as a correctness control (not actually used by the reference implementation)

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 14

1. I feel obliged to share this tommy lee related pic

_______________________________@filipamv· Apr 12

From the CBC article, Doug Ford repeats the grift: “We cannot run the healthcare system without philanthropists” is a crock of shit. They contribute <10% of the budget!!!!! Its a kind of theft, really, that is being celebrated.

_______________________________@filipamv· Mar 29

woke up today and chose violence (towards our bookshelf):

a bookshelf has been rearranged so that the book spines form a rainbow coloured gradient

_______________________________@filipamv· Feb 6

someone on reddit going by whatIsTheQuestion compiles the most incredible lists. there is such deep rot: www.reddit.com/r/toronto/co...

_______________________________@filipamv· Jan 19

This got buried in a much larger piece of mine but this is one of my firmest, most irrational hopes & core beliefs

We all have a part to play in building the future we want.

No single person can deal with this situation.

I have good news for you, though: assholes are a minority. People of conscience, people with good will and good intentions have always outnumbered psychopaths and sycophants. It might not feel that way but that’s because psychopaths have a structural advantage: normal people aren’t obsessed with climbing hierarchies and dominating others.

Look around you. The world runs on kindness and empathy. Hardly anything in our daily life would function at all if complete assholes were anything more than a tiny minority of the population. It actually takes a vast machinery to suppress this fact, and to reward evil behaviour.

_______________________________@filipamv· Jan 15

you’re welcome to come and shovel my west end backyard

_______________________________@filipamv· Jan 13

i can’t tell if these people are a psyop or have rotted their brains thru negative polarization in the rage chamber. the world is making us so angry the energy has to go somewhere

_______________________________@filipamv· Jan 6

i saw this last night, and was reminded of this thread. i now know two people who post for fun on mastodon and post For Battle on bluesky

most of my art and fun earnest posting goes to mastodon because bluesky is weirdly set up to funnel engagement toward LSAs (large sarcasm accts)

_______________________________@filipamv· Jan 3

basically this:

_______________________________@filipamv· Dec 20

so i leave you with two selfies: me feeling a bit sad, about to head out at 1130pm / me feeling great, about to go to bed at 3am

bathroom selfie: I’m wearing a skirty pair of shorts atop leggings and a long sleeve mesh top under an imitation-leather bra harness i got from a vendor at pride. i’ve got a bit of lipstick and eyeliner, an i’m wearing long hair down, which looks a bit wild and messy from the sauna.

despite having a hot look there’s a certain world weariness about me

bathroom selfie: same clothes as before, but my hair is up in a pony and i’ve rubbed off my lipstick. my brain has been rinsed, and my poise communicates confidence and maybe a bit of joy.

_______________________________@filipamv· Dec 13

vibing after the anthropology museum

I’m wearing a forest green tuque, a black neck tube, and an olive green jacket and a bit of eye makeup. The street behind me is covered in snow, and the trees are barren.

_______________________________@filipamv· Dec 12

i’d forgotten that i had addressed the idea that absent rent controls tenants are incentivized to be nimbys

When landlords raise rents above costs, they are in effect cashing in on new or improved local amenities provided either by the state or the local community itself.
The reduction of crime, or the expansion of public transit, readily provide rationales for increasing rents. Creating conditions where tenants may reasonably fear investment in their communities is a rather perverse outcome.

_______________________________@filipamv· Dec 11

when i wrote my open source polemic i expected a bit of pushback on these lines but everyone sailed right through them.