A preview of my first #Substack video coming out tomorrow. I hope you enjoy it.

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I'm getting this mole removed (close-up in 1, bit further back in 2, circled on 3) on Tuesday. It's big and barely hanging on and it hurts almost 24/7. Not hugely painful, but when it is almost constant, it's very annoying. The last picture is partly to show how many moles I have on my body. Also, I

I am a transfeminine non-binary person and I get misgendered every fucking day. I look like a male, so get called "sir" multiple times a day every day. If I wear a dress, I don't look feminine, so that doesn't help. I could correct every person I meet, but that is really exhausting to do. Not sure

biaesthetic, queer person (she/they) December 2024-January 6, 2025- transfeminine non-binary, grey biromantic, biaesthetic, sex favorable greysexual queer person (she/they) January 7, 2025-Present- queer, sex favorable greysexual, transfeminine non-binary, grey biromantic, panaesthetic person

2015-2016- genderqueer gay person (they) 2016-2017- non-binary queer person (they) 2017-May 2024- transfeminine non-binary queer person (she/they) May 2024-October 2024- transfeminine non-binary, biromantic queer person (she/they) October 2024-December 2024- transfeminine non-binary, biromantic,

Not sure if I shared this here before, but here's the timeline of me realizing my identities and the pronouns I use(d) at each stage. Birth-1999- cis straight man (he) although I knew there were attractions to men, I thought it was a “phase” 1999-2002- cis bi man (he) 2002-2015- cis gay man (he)

Today is my #Nameiversary! 6 years ago today my name change became official. Or, as My friend Florence put it, my official name became "the name God always knew her by." I love this framing because it's true. I never felt wholly comfortable as "Matthew". But "Mychel"? That's a whole other story and

It's #PrideMonth and here are the flags of my four major identity labels: greysexual, biromantic, transfeminine, and non-binary. The unused flags: sex favorable and queer. What are your flags? #Pride

Binging #Overcompensating and I am loving it. Wasn't sure if I was going to be into it, but I am really loving the show. It's on the raunchy side, but it's really funny. I am totally going to have an episode of @queerlypopular.bsky.social about this season. Really hope it gets renewed.

Happy #MothersDay to all the mothers or mother figures out there. This year, I want to celebrate @billieiswriting.bsky.social as my mother figure. Billie is the first woman I've celebrated that I have never met IRL. Billie has taught me so much over the last few years. She also always shows such

I have to admit to conflicted feelings over the announcement of the #HeartstopperMovie. I am very grateful that we'll be getting the movie so we can see the end to this part of their story and I know Alice will take care to tell the story we'll. I also know that this is the best option due to Kit

My thoughts about #PopeFrancis are....complicated. He was, undoubtedly, the best pope of my lifetime. He pushed the Catholic Church towards the teachings of Jesus in regards to the poor and marginalized in ways Popes John Paul II and Benedict did not. He also pushed the Catholic Church to be better

Today is #InternationalAsexualityDay, a day when we celebrate those of us who are on the ace spectrum. I am a sex favorable greysexual person. That means I enjoy having sex but I rarely experience sexual attraction. I can name every person I've ever been sexually attracted to (only 7 in total).

Today is #TransgenderDayOfVisibility. Right now, we are visible and we are in danger. The fascists have targeted us and lied about us and are doing what they can to eradicate us. But we will not be silenced or shut away. If you want to be an ally, especially if you are cishet, we need you to stand

Just finished the season finale of #TheWayHome and it was beautiful! Loved that we got to see Colton realize who Alice, Kat, and Jacob are and that he was totally planning on telling Del about everything. Also loved that Del got to travel and see her wedding. That was so beautiful. Just a few

Need I say more? Just a few more years until the big 5-0! #Birthday #BirthdayQueen #BirthdayQueen👑 #MyBirthday

Just finished the penultimate episode of #TheWayHomeSeason3 and it was quite the trip. Colton reveals one aspect to the pond we didn't know: if you tell someone their future, the pond will stop working for you. And he and Delilah got engaged quite young. I'm sure it was mentioned before, but if so,

Just stop with this awful bullshit. It's not funny, it's homophobia. I'll bet this person thinks they're an ally. They aren't. If you promote this sort of thing, you're promoting homophobia & are therefore a homophobe. Here's a list of people to block. Read the description bsky.app/profile/did:...

pissed. And listening to him sing that absolutely beautiful song meant for Delilah gave me tears. And I also loved learning more about Colton's time traveling and my thought was in line with Del's: Did he know that Jacob had gone to the past and if so, why didn't he tell her? I'm sure there's a

Just finished the eighth episode of the third season of #TheWayHomeHallmarkChannel and it did not disappoint at all. We got to hear Colton and Alice record the demo and it was incredible! @jordandoww.bsky.social and Sadie sound incredible together and if we don't get this song released, I'll be

Some thoughts on love. Also, let's talk about outing.... "Jen. You belong...you belong to me. Don't you get it? You're my soulmate. Amy's gonna know love, everyday of her life she is gonna know how much her mother loved her. I'm gonna see to that. Ok?" open.substack.com/pub/mychelva...

So #RedWhiteAndRoyalBlue was filmed from June to August 2022 and released a year later. Assuming this shares that timeframe, we should get the #RWRBSequel in late 2026 or early 2027. That is really exciting! #RWRBMovie #RWRB

@nytimes.com, stfu, just sit the f*ck down and shut your f*cking mouth. You've been taking an anti-trans angle for years and now are acting like you haven't been? F*cking hypocrites. You don't get gratitude and you don't get to act like an ally because you aren't one. You're just trying to take a

Just finished episode 6 of season 3 of #TheWayHome. No singing this week (😢) but we did get to see Colton and Del dance together in the bed of a pickup. Quite a lovely moment. And Kat got herself in quite an interesting situation in the past. I am curious if Jacob is going to remain in 1816 or if

streaming. I so want to be able to listen to them whenever I want. Seeing Susanna marrying Cyrus was a blow. And what is going on with Max and Cassie? That is going to be an interesting mystery to figure out. I have to admit to being annoyed at Del for yelling at Alice the way she did. We're halfway

I just finished watching episode 5 of season 3 of #TheWayHome. I loved that it opened with 2 songs from @jordandoww.bsky.social. I particularly enjoyed the folk song (the second one). And then Alice sang that second folk song later, which was also gorgeous. I so hope they release these songs for

Reconciling In Christ Sunday 2025 Sermon "Looking for a reason, roaming through the night to find my place in this world." open.substack.com/pub/mychelva...

Loved the fourth episode of The Way Home season 3 and loved it so much. Listening to @jordandoww.bsky.social sing #Waterloo was so much fun! I love ABBA, so listening to him sing it was so awesome. And really curious as to how Colton's sweater got from 1999 to today. And what is going on with Casey?

The ERA "Boom. Boom, boom, boom. Boom, boom. BOOM! Have a nice day." IYKYK open.substack.com/pub/mychelva...