🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️

@sidiansonne

37 Autistic Disabled, Chronically Ill, Poor Medically Allergic to Sunlight and Heat Minsexual🏳️‍🌈 Androgyne🏳️‍⚧️(They/Them) Not a woman, not a man Polyamorous No straight way to date me Fae Goth Too Old For Your BS Gamer! Currently: HKIA with my GF 🥰

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🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· 23d

#MOTH LOVERS! I have found a moth I relate to heavily! THEY DRINK BLOOD. This is Calyptra orthograpta, a type of vampire moth! And they look like the cutest little blood-sucking leaf! *Note: I do not consume blood, but I am definitely a vampire and would do so if given the opportunity.

Calyptra orthograpta in four pictures. Every photo is of what looks like a brown leaf with black dot eyes on a pointed end. I, too, wish to be the little leaf!

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 14

Happy International Nonbinary People’s Day! I stole this from Planned Parenthood 🥰. I’m Nonbinary and in need of being celebrated today pls 🥺. #Enby #NonBinary #Pride

Art from Planned Parenthood that reads Happy International Nonbinary People’s Day. It is black text in front of the Nonbinary Pride Flag. There are purple tulips and green leaves coming from the center banner.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 14

My front door security grating has gifted me a #moth again! I think it’s the same one as last time (which is why I open the front door to look for moths now), but they got inside this time and had to be rescued (I have two cats). They appear to be a brown-lined looper moth! #photography

The underside of a brown-lined looper moth inside one of my huge jars. They are small (maybe 1.5 inches across). The underside has lovely dark brown stripes alternating with light brown. They got in my apartment, so this was a rescue! They are one of the moths that feed on Western Red Cedar bushes, which this complex has.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 11

My boy knows I am sick today and insists on being under the blanket and curled up on my injured leg (he’s gone back under 3 times now when I had to get up). Please accept this Falkor photo from days ago as a current pic would just be a green blanket. That’s the bathroom door. #Caturday #Falkor

Falkor, a cream-colored Ragamuffin boy cat with flamepoint markings on his ears, face, legs, back, and his tail, The Floof Poof. He is floofy and flopped on the brown carpet floor. He’s leaned back against a white door that is slightly ajar. It is the bathroom door. None shall pass.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 9

I finished building this the other night. It went pretty fast! This one honestly has so much going on that this angle doesn’t show all of it. Also, suggestions for keeping pieces together? Considering starting to use glue.

A flower made from a building kit. It has a tan pot with a pine tree image on it in brown, a green vine, a small yellow flower, a small blue flower, the orange center of a flower on the right, and a central pink and red flower with a pink tendril and red tendril behind it.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 8

Problem destroying me today: -Most clothing makes me overheat, bothers my sensory issues, or hurts to wear due to my allodynia. -I found a shirt that does not bother any of my issues. -My ceiling fell and took out all but 2. -The company does not make it in a 5X anymore. Help 😭.

A screenshot of a spaghetti strap cold shoulder tunic top from Larace that is a stormy cloudy dark blue color being worn by a tan woman.

LARACE Cold Shoulder Tops for Womens Summer Clothes Spaghetti Strape Tunic Oversized Shirts Asymmetrical Plus
Size Blouse

The rest is a size chart.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 7

Finished my #snail build last night! You can’t tell here, but the eyestalks are transparent! Btw all #artist folx out there, the eyes are the little balls on the top of the eyestalks there. That’s where snails have their eyes. Not on the tan part. Above it. You’re welcome.

A snail made from a building set. They have transparent black eyestalks, a brown shell, and a tan body. They are surrounded by white, blue, yellow, and pink flowers.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 4

Just finished this build! It was tough because of the small pieces. #hobbies #dragonfly #WaterLily #build #building #blocks

A finished building kit. There is a black base that reads Insect World in white text. A clear plastic dome is over a blue dragonfly, an orange dragonfly, and several stages of growth of water lilies made from blocks.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 3

Oh that is so precious 🥰. I hope you two have a great weekend! Other bug for you 😊💜.

A yellow, black, and white Monarch butterfly caterpillar crawling on a leaf towards the camera. San Diego, California.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jul 2

The Blood Flood is making me an emotional mess today, so I’m listening to music and editing photos I took when I was outside recently. I loved finding this two-tone rose! #rose #flowers #naturephotography #photography #art #nature

A rose that has bright pink petals on the left half and white petals with a pale pink tint on the right. Taken in La Mesa, California.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 30

Be impressed with my “very photogenic bones” (compliment from the X-Ray tech) that are absolutely not supposed to look like this 😅. Injured 1/30 from a ceiling fall. No broken bones, but it triggered a bunion to start at the base of the big toe, which is still bruising and swollen.

An X-ray of my right foot. My big right toe was injured by a ceiling fall on 1/30, which didn’t break anything but caused the formation of a bunion that has remained swollen at the bottom joint of the toe.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 28

Ah yes, saying I think accessibility is not a joke in a video of a dwarf repeatedly not having accommodations made by family members she is visiting is bringing the ableist bots out of the woodwork to attack me on Instagram. I don’t block out the names of bullies. Get fucked. Time to find out.

A screenshot of comments on Instagram.

lyndsayannstewart
Sidiansonne IT'S A SKIT!!! A family having fun! Just because you don't have family to have fun with and find zero joy or humor or enjoyment in life doesn't mean this family has to live like that. You should be more accommodating to others.

sidiansonne
@lyndsayannstewart You can fuck right off for your baseless assumptions. I have a family, I laugh every day with my girlfriend, and I actually experience a lot of joy in my life. None of that stops me from being a disabled person in need of accommodations (shrugs emoji).

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 26

Got my Hot Goth GF @phoenixsonne.bsky.social her first Draculara recently 🥰🥰🥰. I try to get her cute fun things sometimes that she missed out on being stuck in BoyMode in childhood. And I love Monster High Dolls a lot. She took the photo, I edited it. #MonsterHigh #Draculara

Draculara from the Monster High Dolls by Mattel. Her hair is black and pink and pulled into two ponytails. She has very goth bangs. Pink skin, pink eyes, and a pink fan in front of her face. She’s wearing black gloves and sitting down. Her dress is black and pink with a pink and white cage-like bodice and skirt. It’s reminiscent of a spiderweb.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 24

QRP with your Pride Flag(s) ✨

The Minsexual Pride Flag. Minsexual is attraction to those who are masculine-in-nature across genders. The flag has a cerulean stripe across the top, a pale sky blue stripe next, a mint green thicker stripe in the middle with a cerulean teardrop with a mint green dot at the bottom, another pale sky blue stripe, and another cerulean stripe:

The Androgyne Pride Flag, under the Non-binary Umbrella, which is under the Transgender Umbrella. It honestly looks like a Lisa Frank stamp pad I swear I had as a kid in the 90s. Vertical thick stripes. Left is Hot Pink, middle is Violet, and the right is Sky Blue.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 17

Oh Susan, this is so beautiful! Making me miss the black cats I’ve known over here. This was my sister’s cat named Shadow. She always called her Kissytat instead.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 17

Please accept The Absolute Gift that is My Falkor in these trying times. #cats #CatsOfBlueSky #Falkor #pets #photography

Falkor, my cream colored Ragamuffin boy cat with orange flamepoint markings on his face and his tail, The Floof Poof. He is lying on a red blanket and has his head leaning against a purple pillow. He has blue eyes and a pink nose and is staring off towards the bottom right. His front legs are stretched in front of him, and The Floof Poof is curled around his back legs. He has a neck ruffle of soft fur that almost looks like a lion mane.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 16

Toof! I haven’t been posting as many Falkor photos since I’ve been busy unpacking, but here he is sleeping with a little fang sticking out. His face is so cute here 🥹! #CatsOfBlueSky #cats #pets #Falkor

Falkor, my cream colored Ragamuffin boy cat, sleeping on a blanket with a blue, teal, and yellow stripe. He has orange flamepoint markings on his face and arm. Pink nose and pink toe beans. His front peets are curled and one of his back ones is sticking out. His face is towards the camera, and he has one of his top fangs showing.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 11

Except is from this article. www.chronicle.com/article/my-s... Generative AI and Large Language Models are literally making people dumber.

Text excerpt.

Another reason for the decline in student reading capability is increasing reliance on generative Al. In June 2025, Nataliya Kosmyna and colleagues at the MIT Media Lab released a preprint titled "Your Brain on ChatGPT." They divided 54 participants into three groups writing SAT-style essays - one using ChatGPT, the second group using a search engine, the last group using nothing - and monitored brain activity with a 32-channel EEG. The ChatGPT group showed the lowest neural connectivity of the three, with up to 55 percent reduced connectivity compared with the brain-only group, and "consistently underpertormed at neural, linguistic, and behavioral levels." Eighty-three percent of LLM users could not quote a single line from essays they had written minutes earlier. When the LLM group was forced to write without Al in a follow-up session, their brain activity did not bounce back to baseline; the researchers coined the term "cognitive debt" for the lingering deficit.

This is the first neurophysiological evidence that early reliance on LLMs (Large Language Models measurably alters the brain's engagement with writing tasks, and it is consistent with what those of us in front of classrooms are watching happen in real time.
When I assign analysis, I am not trying to extract a polished product; I am trying to put the student's mind through resistance in order to make it stronger. Offloading the struggle to a chatbot does not "free students up for higher-order work." It deprives them of building the strength to do any substantial cognitive work at all.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 9

We don't usually see each other's headers. Here's mine. Quote post with yours.

A closeup of Sid’s rainbow heart sunglasses they got to make themselves look less intimidating when masking.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 9

It’s Day 9 of featuring #LGBTQ+ #artist and #smallbusiness folx for #Pride Month! Today, I’m featuring CustomCritterDesigns! They make the most adorable keychains. This is a VERY #soft #Krobus that helped me through my ER visit! www.etsy.com/shop/CustomC... #StardewValley #gaming #Autistic

A very soft plush keychain of Krobus from Stardew Valley that I’m holding in my hand.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 8

These are umbrella terms for how I identify. I’m specifically Minsexual and Androgyne. SOGIE isn't just for queer people - it helps us understand the full spectrum of identity. I just mapped my SOGIE 🏳️‍🌈 Turns out everyone has one, even you. Find yours: paolodomingo.com/apps/sogie/

The SOGIE chart that describes Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, and Expression. Mine says I’m a bisexual nonbinary person, which is pretty close to how I identify. The chart shows rainbow slider bars for indicating scores.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 7

Fee posted this, too!

SOCIAL MURDER
Is a term coined by Friedrich Engels in 1845 and used to describe murder committed by the political and social elite where they knowingly permit conditions to exist where the poorest and most vulnerable in society are deprived of the necessities of life and are placed in a position in which they cannot reasonably be expected to live and will inevitably meet an early and unnatural death.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 7

Falkor is keeping his Maumy’s chair warm until she is ready to game again. At least he is no longer trying to “help” with unpacking boxes. #Caturday #CatsOfBluesky #Cats #Pets #Gaming

Falkor, a cream-colored Ragamuffin boy cat with flamepoint markings on his ears, face, and tail, The Floof Poof. He is lying on his side on a black and red gaming chair and napping. The Floof Poof is curled along his back peets, and his front peets are curled under his chest. He has a pink nose and pink toe beans.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 5

Totally agree with *most* of this. But Kratos does not have dadbod. He has Strongest Man In The World Bod.

Eddie Hall, former strongman and strongest man in the world, flexing his arms and abs in a gym. He has peach skin, tattoo sleeves down each arm, a tattoo on each pectoral, and some back tattoos partially visible in the mirror behind him. Brown mostly shaved short hair, brown mustache, brown beard.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 3

An out-loud convo between me and GF @phoenixsonne.bsky.social. She typed it up for me to show our friend. We are in the new apartment and still figuring out how well we can communicate from separate rooms. I might set up a cans and string communication system.

A screenshot of a convo with my GF. She is represented by the Phoenix emoticon, and I am a snail.

Sid and I were in different parts of the apartment when this just happened...
From Sid's) perspective, while they were playing a game:
Yay, I get a magical surprise!
Phoenix: [Something they can't make out]
Sid: it's so magical!
Phoenix: [Something they can't make out]
•••
Phoenix: [Something they can't make out]
Sid: I can't hear you!

From my (Phoenix’) perspective:
Sid: Yay, I get a magical surprise!
Phoenix: Surprise, it's oatmeal!
Sid: it's so magical!
Phoenix: Oatmeal can be magical.
•••
Phoenix: I don't think you can hear me.
Sid: I can't hear you!
Sid was playing a game, for context.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 2

Hey so…I kinda fucked up. I know I’m disabled and on blood thinners, but I still put my knees on a hardwood floor multiple times to get up bc I needed to during our move to the new place. I had my cane, but I let the movers pack my walker when I should have used it to sit 🤦🏻. Oops. #Disabled

A picture of Sid’s pale hairy legs on a red sheet. They have very dark bruises right below their knees. The worst are on the right (their left), and they have a yellow healing bruise a few inches below that.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· Jun 2

My GF hugging the Squishmallow I got her to thank her for how much work she has done to get us moved to our new place (this was our old place). She named her Lucille! Lucille is Trans Pride Flag colors and has tiny fangs. #Pride #TransPride #TransJoy #Trans #Dragon

My GF Phoenix hugging Lucille, her new Squishmallow dragon, while sitting cross-legged on the floor. Phoenix is hiding her face behind Lucille and wearing a black cold shoulder dress with small pink flowers all over it. Lucille is colored like the Trans Pride Flag. She is sky blue with little wings with shiny pink webbing, a pink dragon mane, a white nose, small white fangs, a white tummy, and pale yellow horns out to the side with pink rings on them.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· May 31

Falkor is absolutely 100% definitely helping with the move-out cleaning. Update: His Maumi, my GF, has banished him from the room for jumping in the box she was putting things in and starting to claw at the inside of it. #cats #pets #CatsOfBlueSky #Ragamuffin

Falkor, my cream-colored Ragamuffin boy cat, flopped on blue mats on the floor. He has orange flamepoint markings on his face, ears, and tail, The Floof Poof. He has a green pill bottle with a yellow lid and various trash and items by him on the floor. He is leaning against a white wood panel wall and looking up to the right.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· May 30

QTP with a blue haired girl 💙 The Blue Fairy I photographed opening weekend at Southern California Pleasure Faire in 2013.

A white woman sitting at a table dressed as The Blue Fairy, complete with a small Jiminy Cricket on the left of her beaded blue crown/headpiece. She has blue hair, blue lips, blue eyeshadow, blue wings, white sleeves, a blue corset, and a blue skirt.

🏳️‍⚧️Sidian Sonne🏳️‍⚧️@sidiansonne· May 30

Another rose I met at the new apartment complex. #BlueSkyArtShow #Growth #photography #DisabledArtist #rose #flowers #nature #art