Lisa who used to use her last name here but deleted it:)
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Ran product management and UX. Now I write a blog and attempt fiction. I try not to be a jerk. Princeton Comp Lit/Columbia MBA, happily married. If you repost my comments to incite a dogpile, or DM me without acquaintance, I block you. She/her
Filthy dirty San Francisco just this weekend!
Hummingbirds for my father. In his last years, he would sit in his study and watch hummingbirds at his window. After we scattered his ashes in a meadow in the Eastern Sierra, and rode back to the car, a hummingbird was hovering over a nearby flower. Had never seen one up so high.
My son's book, out in March, 2027, has a cover! www.instagram.com/p/DavLFxftv1M/ From @marinerbooks.bsky.social. "A heartbreaking, sexy debut following a tumultuous year in the life of a late-twenties gay textile artist who must help his father die as his own life transforms." Beautifully written:).
I think my favorite face in the World Cup is the Iranian goalie. He looks like the king of somewhere.
Brazil didn't win but my daughter was on the TV during a break so that's something 😆
Fine, here's a photo of San Francisco today for all you futbol barely tolerators
As Big Basin park recovers from its fire, apparently all kinds of less common butterflies are showing up. Some of them have made their way down the mountain to us. Witness a California Tortoiseshell on some simple roses in my front yard. 🌱
Will Sharpe for James Bond. Giri/Haji to White Lotus. British actor of his generation. #jamesbond
One thing you learn about gardening is that if you grow enough flowers you like there will be days when you can run outside, grab whatever, come back, cram your finds in some vases and presto chango beauty in the house. 🌱
My brilliant and beautiful son, apparently an icon of modern gay culture (according to his gallerist), artist and 2027 debut novelist (Mariner imprint), has released a collection of knitted, text-augmented thongs. Go take a look. He's also the sweetest guy:) Buy here. www.summon-elemental.com/shop
Green border. Yes, I irrigate. It's California. Who knows how many more years this will be a reasonable approach? For now, the same sprinklers that water these plants also sustain 6 trees, 3 of them native species.
Snipped off a bunch of snowball viburnum balls, couple magnolia branches, crammed them in a vase, had beauty.
It is SO dangerous here. Those wild turkeys and women in orange dresses will get you every time.
You know, if America insists on a business icon as president, we could do worse than this guy: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ron_Vac...
It's brutal here on my TL today. Have a climbing rose and a vine. Grew over the fence from my neighbor's garden.
Hey, NYT, did you plan this for your digital front page today?
This is really gorgeous in person. At the de Young, in SF. www.famsf.org/exhibitions/...
Blogged, for my small old blog with about 2K email subscribers in my demographic. We should all speak to our communities in our own languages. lisacarnochan.com/2026/03/how-...
Very different from their headlines last night:
My daughter is a surgeon in Manhattan. She sent me this video of her walk up to the hospital at 5:30 this morning. Sound on;).
Oof. Maybe we need a Bluesky Day of Touching Grass. If we must be here, for every post on politics, we have to also post one photo of our real world. Can be scenic, but not required.
One more vibe boost. A young couple lying in the grass at a neighborhood park, reading together from one book, their bikes by their feet.
From the photographer, Brigitte Carnochan: Please join my grandson Patrick Carroll and me at Themes + Projects Gallery on February 7 between 5-7 pm for the opening of our exhibition, FIBER & LIGHT, knitted works and photo encaustics on view through March 28, 2026. 1275 Minnesota St., San Francisco.
An outrage break, to restore self. Lemons on the sidewalk in my California neighborhood today.