isaac 🌻
@androgynyfiend
28 | usa | normal marxist | trans policy wonk | assigned wwi guy at birth
reading a different article now. the absolutely unhinged things I want to say to this asshole
i hate marxist academics so much like this is a paper the two of them worked on and i'm just like god can you actually just focus on things that matter. can you talk about the economy or something
my mom be like okay your birthday is over time for the evangelical brain rot
people sharing this on X as proof that TERFs don't hate trans men but y'all... yes they do lol. the ~ AFABs ~ who would agree with this are 1) already transmisogynists and 2) are conceptualized to be non-passing for the most part
"yeah, financial stress makes it hard to love and care for others. but have family abolitionists considered that removing the financial stress specific to the nuclear family wouldn't actually help?"
HEY EVERYONE WHO GREW UP IN ABUSIVE FAMILIES. REALLY DUMB OF US TO THINK THAT WE COULD FIND BETTER SUPPORT SYSTEMS IF WE WEREN'T FUCKING HELD PRISONERS AS CHILDREN. WE'RE JUST STUPID NAIVE LITTLE BABIES
READING A DIFFERENT ARTICLE NOW AND HOLY SHIT WHEN I SAY MY JAW FUCKING DROPPED
this woman identifies as a feminist and a marxist and yet her conclusion is "men are more likely to be hateful misogynists when they're NOT romantically involved with a woman. women say their romantic relationships with men ruin their lives. the conclusion? heterosexuality can be good"
to quote cabaret: when you go to get a word of advice from the fat little pastor and he will tell you to love evermore / but when hunger comes a rap rat-a-tat rat-a-tat at your window see how love flies out the door. which is a more marxist analysis than this
so the article in question opens with her talking about men beating their female partners, then talks about how men exploit the concept of love to exploit women's domestic/reproductive labor, and then immediately goes into "actually, men are less likely to beat you if you just love them hard enough"
i'm writing a response to this article and taking notes on this article plus 8 other articles she's written
this is your brain on never considering children as human beings as family abolition isn't about the fucking choice to have kids it's about "can you survive and have your needs met WITHOUT a family?"
took a break from anti-family abolition woman and now I'm back and missing myself off instead of sleeping. I am a family abolitionist who also might like to have kids of my own some day what the actual fuck are you talking about!
i'm beefing with the anti-family abolition woman i'm doing my fucking research on her stupid ass articles
me when i'm too embarrassed to admit i have a good relationship with my family
reading other articles by the jacobin anti-family abolitionist woman and she is so stupid god bless
love this point bc it 1) justifies family abolition in that it proves that the nuclear family ***is not enough*** and 2) completely ignores how families can politicize ppl in BAD ways, like oh idk the richest man in the world buying one of the biggest social media platforms to push anti-trans shit
i was so annoyed at this paragraph that i didn't even process how insane the paragraph immediately before it is. is having a laugh with the lads at the pub downtown while your wife cooks and cleans and puts the kids to bed social reproduction
like calling family abolition a "pessimistic impulse" is genuinely offensive. marx advocated for this close to 200 years ago. it is a profoundly optimistic idea rooted in respect for technological and societal advancement and human dignity
this is a fucking crazy thing to say in the ~ parental rights ~ era oh my god lmfao
i looked into the author and she's a cishet woman who writes about trans ppl constantly which has me even more ??? about all of this bc of the incredible transmisogyny in this excerpt
the interviews she did are fucking amazing btw like cope levels off the fucking charts
welcome 2 my twisted mind i'm going to kms when new ppl get elected this year and i have to update this
subjecting you all to my methodology bc i cannot explain how many hundreds of hours i've spent on this over the past 2 years