benefiatem

@benefiatem

Low-battery powerhouse, n3rd, gamermom, P.L.U.R. advocate, crazy catlady, recovering people-pleaser, uncontrollable treehugger. What if everyone were just nice to each other 🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🔥✨

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benefiatem@benefiatem· Jun 17

Introduce yourself with four video games...

A picture of a pixelated gradient dark blue night sky, with a cloud top-left, over a tall volcanic island with a city in a cove at the base of the mountain bottom-left. On top of the mountain is light from a fire, and underneath it (covering top half of the mountain) in big purple letters is written: "The Secret of Monkey Island"

A pc game cover with some distant spires or rock formations top-left, a face in gray with bushy eyebrows top-right. A background of molten light brown across the mid secrion of the cover, with woman's face on the left half of the image, in shade apart from light hitting across the face at eye&nose height & with black hair that reaches her jawline and partial bangs split mid-forehead. Bottom-right as if through a tear in the "fabric" of the background, you see buildings & some strange formation against a pale sky, as if from another world.
Over the top half of the cover is written in pale yellow letters: "The Longest Journey"

A yellowish brown background as if old parchment. In the centre is a dark brown upside-down triangle with a different symbol in each corner, an embossed diamond shape top-center above the outlines of a dragon with wings folded around it in a weaponshield-ish design.
Across the middle is written: "The Elder Scrolls III MORROWIND"

A dramatic cloudy sky and grey mountains tower around the back of a figure standing on a rocky outcropping bottom-left. The figure is wearing full armor, holding a fiery sword in their left hand and raising their right hand upward, with a bright light in the shape of a roaring dragon shooting out from that hand, breaking up a dark menacing tenebral cloud formation that is reaching down from the top.
Over the darker area on the centre-right is written: "Dragon Age Inquisition".

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jun 4

A striped cat with a royal expression on its face, posed on a dark blue pillow with gold thread outline and red & blue pattern on it; the cat is wearing a gold crown with gems on it and underneath is the text "IZ MAH BIRFDAY"

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jun 3

Show me a picture that captures your essence

Spotify wrap page (decorated with orange blobs top & bottom) with the text: "Taste like yours can't be defined. But let's try anyway" and in small writing: "You listened to 149 genres".
(This is who I am in life and also what I continually try to figure out the core of; yes, diagnosed with adhd age 40 and pretty sure there's a dollop of autism on top, what of it.)
Topmost in the pic (I didn't edit bc I forgot) is phone battery widget of 26% (which is usually what I wake up with, mentally).

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jun 1

This is a cat check point. Relinquish your most recent cat picture on your phone.

Link, a 1/2 bengal cat with brownish-grey fur but white collar & socks + forehead & nose patch, is lying on a brown wooden patio enjoying the sunshine with his eyes closed and a content look on his little smooshy face.
Some planters with light blue, blue, dark pink, white, black & purple flowers in them in the background, as well as a Pride flag top-right.
Dark brown fence in the very backplus you can see part of a blue sky.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Apr 8

they do what they can to stay classy

Link (1/2 bengal cat with the usual stripes & spots on the reddish brown overcoat but slightly more greyish plus white belly, socks & markings on face), lying upside-down, hind legs in the air, glorious butt facing the camera, front paws & head slightly on the side and teetering on the edge of sofa cushion, but eyes closed & serene look on his face

benefiatem@benefiatem· Feb 18

my memory is shit lol dialed.gg

score page from colourmatching game website showing score 43.1/50 and text under it: "Genuinely unsettling accuracy. Please find a hobby."

benefiatem@benefiatem· Feb 11

without new pics describe your gender

I keep battling it, yet I am it.
A drawing of a purple 'questionable toadlin' in a grassy field. It has pulled down its pants to moon you while also balancing a cup of coffee on its butt, and is putting up the naughty finger-on-chin-raised-eyebrow-sassy-stare pose (courtesy of ModernSam adhd mgmt app).

benefiatem@benefiatem· Feb 6

No new pictures, where are you mentally

A pic I took at IKEA of a heap of black toilet plungers & a pedestal with a white and yellow rubber glove on it, middle finger up.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Dec 5

yes, yes it is

Link, a 1/2 bengal cat with greyish-brown coat, black stripes (& spots, though not visible on this pic) and white chest, belly & circle around snout plus a white stripe up half the nose ridge & one down the left paw; here seen begging for pets by reaching out with aforementioned paw and grabbing my arm.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Nov 22

without downloading new pics, what is it like dating you?

A picture of Erika Ishii against a green background w/black industrial shadows (wearing glorious red shiny makeup, a black choker & a red shiny top), giving a startled sideways glance, with the text "Rolling the d4. Let's see what happens." at the bottom.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Nov 10

Link is here

Link, a 1/2 bengalcat with greyishbrown overcoat, black stripes & spots & eyeliner, and a white belly+markings on the face (lower half plus a stripe between nose ridge&eye on the right side) + white socks.
Here seen bringing the ol'razzledazzle, lying on his side, face-up, and raising his right front paw while touching toebeans with his left front paw.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Nov 7

Soldiers' table LET'S GOOO! (Sam: "Luckily, I'm sitting side-saddle") #criticalrolespoilers

Screenshot of Critical Role soldiers' table.
From top-left: Brennan Lee Mulligan (DM); Travis Willingham (Teor); Laura Bailey (Thimble).
From bottom-left: Robbie Daymond (Khattigan); Whitney Moore (Tyranny); Sam Riegel (Wicander).

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 28

everyone post silly cats

Link, a part Bengal cat with white belly, socks & face markings and greyish-brown top coat with black stripes and spots.
He is lying on his back on a grey sofa, butt-first towards the camera, curling his hind paws and spreading his front paws up against the sofa pillows.
He is looking at the camera with a "how dare you mock me; I'm cute af" expression.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 25

💖

Screenshot of part of the article with the misnaming of Matt as "Mark" highlighted (inside joke for those who have seen Dimension 20's oneshot episode "On A Bus") among the following text:

""That strong division between the two worlds," Mercer concludes, "Leads to a very intriguing, unique flavor that we have not yet been able to wade into [in Critical Role]. And that is super exciting for me as a player."

You and us both, Mark.

Critical Role's Campaign 4 debuts on October 2 on Critical Role's Beacon, YouTube, and Twitch channels."

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 18

no new pictures, where are you at mentally?

Drawing of an oldenday woman with a no-nonsense-I've-had-it look on her face, with one stern hand on her hip, and text in blue letters on the left side saying: "Fine, I won't give up. But I will cuss the entire time."

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 11

No New Pictures, Where Are You Mentally?

Pic of a book cover with a cat chasing a red ball of string, and the title "Lessons from Cats for Surviving Fascism" in black letters. (Author: Stewart "Brittlestar" Reynolds).

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 10

Hvordan skal vi rekke å oppdra så mange menn under 30 på nytt før neste valg?! 😅

Screenshot fra NRK hvor det står:

"Undersøkinga viser også at 65 prosent av dei som stemte Frp er menn.

Hadde menn under 30 år fått bestemma, hadde Frp vore landets største parti.

Hadde det vore opp til kvinner under 30, hadde Ap framleis vore landets største parti, med SV hakk i hæl."

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 9

The racism, disregard for nature and greed of the rich is officially seeping in here in Norway as well...FrP getting this much is absolutely disgusting

The (preliminary) results from the Norwegian election; the Left is thankfully in the lead, but the most conservative and previously lowest-scoring party of the Right is now in the lead in that group, and dangerously close.
Top: Pictures of the leader of AP, Jonas Gahr-Støre; the leader of Høyre, Erna Solberg; and, with her trademark dead eyes and hateful-but-innocenty grin, the leader of FrP, Sylvi Listhaug.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Sep 4

(Spoilers) Star Trek: Picard s2e04 – the crew are back in year 2024. In one scene ICE enter a clinic to detain immigrants & the crew are told people are being disappeared by ICE, so I looked up the episode date on IMDB...the ep is from 2022 & included these reviews which clearly didn't age well...

TL;DR: Several reviews from angry men complaining Star Trek shouldn't have become this woke (which in itself is idiotic as it always has been), but to top it off they are complaining that ICE is being portrayed in a completely ridiculously conspiratorial manner, lol.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Aug 3

logging on

Sam Riegel as Dame Edna & doing a shoey.
The CC says [cheering].

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 31

I like these metal circled or half-circled stands; just make sure to push the stems inside before they get too tall it if they try to eacape ^^

Heliopsis with dark leaves & yellow flowers with rustcoloured centres, encircled by a rustcoloured metal support.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 31

Love my new rose! Tiny still but keeps bursting out flowers 💜 #gardening #loveofpurple

Dark purple rose 'Midnight Blue' with multiple flowers in bloom.
(There is also a pink&black-leaved oxalis with yellow flowers on the left and some white stones in a lightgrave behind it)

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 27

Congrats, ladies! 🥳🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Image of TV screen showing England's football team on the winners' stage in the football field, holding the trophy for European champions 2025 and cheering as confetti rains down all around them.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 21

He's just a classy guy, y'know

A greyish brown black-striped 1/2 Bengal cat with white patches on his nose, throat & collar & chest, belly and paws lying belly-up on a grey couch
He's lying on a his back with his head tilted back & a blissful expression on his face; front paws curled in towards his chest; both hind legs sprawling & up in the air, butt out & tail curled up towards his back&head.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 20

OMGS the cutest most adorable little rose 😭💜✨ #bloomscrolling #gardening #arosebyanyothername

A tiny rose offshoot with one rosebud and one fully outsprung dark magenta / burgundy rose

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 19

No cheating, your last saved celebrity photo is your therapist, who is it?

4 images in one of Mike Trapp on Dropout TV's "Um, Actually..." saying:
1. "...they decided to change 'mages' to 'wizards'.
2. "And they clearly just did a little find-replace,
3. "which worked for the most part, but in that book,
4. "anytime they referred to 'damage', it's listed as 'dawizard'"

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 19

Feels like they're bragging at this point #bloomscrolling #gardening #mustbeclematisyear

Multiple pastel purplepink clematis with a darker purplepink edge & a pale orangey stripe in the middle on each petal.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 17

He has a waterfountain that I even put icecubes in to keep cool on hot days, but I guess stagnant rainwater from a bucket of rocks is much better...

Cat with his nose&mouth hidden by the rim of a white plastic bucket with rocks in it.
He is standing on a patch of lawn and you can see a dark pink Knautia Macedonica in front of the trunk of a lilac; a grey lavender planter and a turqoise lavender planter.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 17

Did *not* expect the first book I attempt to read in years to be of the smut variety, but here we are ^^ #criticalrole #tusklove #restartafterburnout

A desperately non-manicured hand holding the originally fictional smut book "
Tusk Love" from Critical Role's Campaign 2: Mighty Nein, brought to real-life by author Thea Guanzon.
In the background on the left you can see a blurry cat-loaf, and on the right parts of a planter with an orange flower in it.

benefiatem@benefiatem· Jul 16

Elderly lavenders and young rosemary vibing & thriving #bloomscrolling #gardening