Cozy Cat Cafe

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We do trans-inclusive cozy feminism here. I dispell common misconceptions about the #4B Movement in my series #WarningHotChocolate #cats #4B+ #4BMovement #coffee #hotcocoa #feminism #cozy #BlueCrew 💙💙💙 #resist

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Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 24d

The show is House of the Dragons. ☕️💜

I love how real this show is. They made an exact example of men after you tell them no.

The first picture of Christon Cole proposing marriage to young Rhaenyra.

The second picture of him walking beside Queen Alicent calling her a spoiled cunt.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 24d

Today, I read a potentially fake story about an egg donor being reached out to by a woman claiming to be her "biological daughter." The number of people who believed that this woman was morally obligated to be a mother to this child was unnerving. ☕️💜

Dawn of plumaria says:I'm gonna say something that's gonna upset some people.

If you claim to be "pro-choice" but are mad at the woman who's currently going viral for refusing to have a relationship with her egg donor conceived child, you are NOT pro-choice!

Pro-choice also means respecting a woman's choice to not having a relationship with her egg donor conceived child! Afterall, some of you are starting to sound like anti-choice people by the way you talk about the bio mom, just saying...🤷‍♀️

Cccc says: What I am taking away from this thread is that women should stop donating eggs and stop doing surrogacy because people cannot separate egg donor/surrogate from mother.

We are not emotionally mature enough to accept that biological ties are not equal to moral obligations and that's so sad because we live in an age where this is possible. ☕️💜

Fairybogmother says: THANK YOU.

The obsession with her being the “biological mother” of this random child has felt incredibly anti-choice coded to me this entire time.

Why is nobody mad at the parents who paid for someone else’s DNA and then left that child feeling disconnected and searching out a stranger to be be “mom”?

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 24d

Before anyone does the "its the same species so not a parasite," intra-species parasitism is a thing. Like conjoined twins where one is draining the vital systems of another. ☕️💜

Deviant Plum posted

Me: You're so hot. I want to implant a life threatening parasite into your abdomen.

Him: OK, I'm sorry. When you say it like that, I do understand how, "I want to get you pregnant" is actually a threat not a compliment.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 25d

Women deserve romance. The reason men are threatened by romance novels is because they can never keep up. ☕️💜

Where's Yan says: Leaving a man who’s not romantic enough is valid.

Crowndreamer says: Leaving a man who’s romantic at the beginning but couldn’t keep doing it because he’s already got you is also valid

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 26d

TW: SA Women are not and never have been exaggerating the danger of being in close proximity with men. And before you say, oh well those are obviously bad men, recall that women have been raped by EMT's, firefighters, police officers, and security guards. ☕️💜

There was a prison break somewhere in the Republic of Congo where a group of men escaped their section of the prison due to a fire & rather than focusing on getting out, they immediately went to the women's side to r@pe the women. 156 women were r@ped. THAT was their priority, even when their freedom & lives were at stake. So many men are violent & rotten at their core.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 26d

TW: SA We are having a not so cozy day because I am in a mood to address the horrors that are constantly inflicted upon women while they tell us to shut up and be happy. I would never encourage a woman to join any type of military or even foreign aid organization. They will not protect you. ☕️💜

Phacealix says: Someone told me many years ago that the Peace Corps covers up how many women volunteers get r*ped, especially in the Caribbean.

Ambercadabra says: I fully believe that.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 26d

TW: SA Aid workers, the people you are supposed to rely upon to help you in a disaster, have raped women. This is why we have to treat every man. Every. Man. As a potential rapist. And before you mention female rapists, the stats are not even close. I believe victims of female rapists too. ☕️💜

Ambercadabra:And the perpetrators weren’t just random people, some of them were SUPPOSED TO BE THE AID WORKERS.

I knew Katrina was bad. I read the stories. But it’s literally *every* disaster, in every country. Every natural or man-created crisis. Men seize the opportunity to harm and rape women.

Like deep down I knew…but dear god.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 26d

Tw: SA. When you mention good men, please consider this: Rape only happens when a rapist is present. This means that in every location, worldwide, whena disaster strikes, the rapists who were already present revealed themselves. They are everywhere. ☕️💜

Ambercadabra: I saw a TikTok yesterday that’s been haunting me.

A woman, who was a former humanitarian aid worker, talked about how in EVERY emergency/disaster situation, from earthquakes to armed conflict, men took advantage of the chaos and unrest to commit sexual violence against women. Every. Time.

Kristenthomson22: 4B. They hate us. Stop giving them your time, energy & affection. They deserve NONE OF IT.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 27d

Coercing women into sex is so normalized that if you call it rape, men say it is a false accusation. ☕️💜

The Abby echelon says: Too many men believe manipulation and coercion are normal and just because a woman said yes or some form of yes, that they didn’t do anything wrong. #consentmatters #relationshipadvice

The reason men believe they're falsely accused by women isn't because they dont believe women
It's because they believe what they did is a normal and acceptable thing to do.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· 28d

No lies told. ☕️💜

Orwuddeva said: Do men understand a large part of the treatment they experience is because they are dangerous? Did yall think we were joking when we said we would pick the fucking bear?

CCC said: The answer is no and it's so funny. They're like dire wolves with bloody muzzles wondering why we don't treat them like lapdog. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 8

As stated below. The most misogynistic man in the world does not want to live on a planet of only men. He wants a world of readily available female slaves to abuse in every way. ☕️💜

Small caps for life says: You are aware that youʼre doing a favour to men who hate women and donʼt want any more girls to be born? Well, thanks.

Cozycatcafe: Ask any man if he wants to live on a planet of only men and he'll say no. Even the most misogynistic man is not so misogynistic that he wants no women to exist for him to abuse. Nice try tho. u/4bmod we have a violation of rule 1.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

A not so cozy wake up call. ☕️💜

Jensbooks247 says: "Why do sexual assault survivors wait so long to come forward? Seems suspicious to me."

WE HAVE A RAPIST AS A SUPREME COURT JUDGE, A RAPIST IN CHARGE OF OUR MILITARY, AND A RAPIST AS THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES, WHO 🌟IS🌟 THE MOTHERFUCKING EPSTEIN FILES.

Fuck all the way off with your victim blaming bullshit.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

☕️💜

Westcoastsalca says: Pepsi has been doing this male centric messaging for a while now. I guess I’m not the target. Ew.💙🇺🇸

Pepsi said: Men only one thing anf it's absolutely refreshing.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

And they continue to ask why victims don't come forward. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

Before anyone says that Pepsi was not talking about sex when they made their rape joke. Please refer to their post history. Tons of sexual innuendo. ☕️💜

Pepsi: You’re being left on read. I’m in their hand. We are not the same.

Pepsi: Crack me. Sip me. Tease me. Taste me. But please don’t shake me.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

The Pepsi debacle is what happens when you make a ton of sex jokes and have zero understanding of consent.

Pepsi's official account says: Pepsi Wild Cherry is what happens when regular cherry stops asking permission.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

You will learn:
Why divorce is a social system, not just a legal one, and what that means for you
How to stop reacting to traps that get used against you
How to protect your credibility with attorneys, mediators, and the court
How to read and interpret the risk patterns in your marriage or divorce
See Link in Bio🧵6/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

Nobody teaches this.
Not therapists or attorneys. Not your friends telling you to be the bigger person.

I'm teaching it in my next free training on August 5th, and I want you there.
Join me for The Protective Divorce Blueprint on August 5, 2026 at 4pm ET: a live training for women navigating a hard marriage or a high-conflict divorce. 🧵5/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

This is why I'm so passionate about educating my clients about this.

Divorce is not just a legal process. It's a social one. Power, perception, credibility, alliances, all of it shapes what happens to you whether you're paying attention or not.

It’s called Situational Awareness. It's the skill that tells you what’s happening in the room even when no one is saying the words, and you are too busy being a good woman to notice. 🧵4/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

My ex had spoken to her first, and to my horror, she showed up biased and hostile toward me. She disbelieved every word I said, accused me of all sorts of things and completely dismissed my testimony.

I lost credibility because I didn't know how I was being perceived in the context of marriage, dating and the divorce system. 🧵3/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

It didn’t seem like a big deal.
I assumed that the therapist would see right through the nonsense of an emotionally abusive man pretending he was "Father of the Year.

I was wrong.

I thought she would weigh both sides and write a fair report.
But she didn’t seem to care that I had been the hands-on, primary, stay-at-home parent for over ten years. 🧵2/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

When I beg women not to have children, I am thinking about situations like these. The system is not set up to protect you even if you are the BEST mother in the world. ☕️💜

Sade curry on Threads says: Nobody warned me about the Optics of divorce
My ex wanted 100% custody even though he'd never changed a diaper, cooked a meal, hardly ever attended the kids' events, and didn’t help with homework.

He would often skip the kids' birthday parties and ruin holidays with his foul moods.

He raised such a stink about getting full custody that the court ordered parenting evaluations. 🧵1/6

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

Please understand that the birth rate scares have always been rooted in WHITE SUPREMACY. The deaths of brown and black women caused by abortion bans are just a bonus point for them. ☕️💜

The news republic says: "What these people are proposing is the idea that women would be potentially sterilized if they wanted to come to America. That’s insane." https://trib.al/DVf8xfR

MAGA wants to force women to pee in cups at Airports.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

If the world will win if we punish all the rapists, the world should end. ☕️💜

Intrepidinamerica says: To all those saying something to the effect of “if we cancelled every man in a position of power that has committed SA, the world would stop, everything will burn down”, I say this:

Dracarys.

Image of a dragon burning lands.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 7

It's not fearmongering. It was NEVER fearmongering. I tell every woman I can: Do NOT move to Texas. And if you are in an abortion ban state: Do NOT get pregnant. ☕️💜

The number of women dying during pregnancy or childbirth in Texas has increased by 56% since the GOP's abortion ban took effect.

Many doctors in Texas say they now see fear every day. Their patients worry about becoming pregnant because if a serious problem happens, doctors may have to wait before they are legally allowed to help. That delay can put a woman's health and life at greater risk.
Source: Courier Texas

Image of Janine from Handmaid's Tale reads: Women in Texas are scared to get pregnant. Because of the abortion ban deaths during pregnancy and childbirth have risen to 56%

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 6

Precisely. ☕️💜

@laughingshaman1 says "A woman should not create a child unless she wants a child. This idea of having children for men is ridiculous.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 6

Shout out to BurbnBougie! I need women not to look down on victims of this kind of abuse. Always remember that as certain that you are that your partner would never do this, there is a victim out there who was JUST as certain as you that her husband would never. Always consider the possibility. ☕️💜

32,000 Men Secretly Sold their Intimate Photos on FB. Picture from Burbnbougie video

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jul 2

Spreading the word because part of Democracy is raising awareness about good ideas. The more people know and tag their representatives. The better chances we have of accomplishing this. ☕️💜

Things the next Dem potus can/should with student loans:

- Reduce the interest to 0% for ALL new and existing fed loans,
- Expand PSLF eligibility to be role (teachers, therapists...) instead of org specific,
- Reduce PSLF payment minimum to 84 months (7yrs vs 10),
- Restaff federal agencies using a new PSLF type incentive (60 payments - 5yrs of federal service).
- 1% income repayment option with dismissal after 120 TOTAL (not consecutive) payments.

@thedemocrats + @demsocialists

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jun 30

I feel like it's not talked about enough that being 4B can literally save your life. ☕️💜

Purrfect43 says: A young lady was murdered by her boyfriend when she received a text message from a male friend. At this point stop dealing with men period. It’s literally killing us.

Harper Valley replies: i hate this. i hate the panic in their voices. i hate the way you can hear their world collapsing. i hate all of this.

she should be alive.

Cozy Cat Cafe@cozycatcafe· Jun 28

TW: Graphic pregnancy/abortion description. This broke my heart ☕️💜