This one Mistress - rather lovely

I often look at Mistresses websites and ask myself 'If I saw her on the other side of a cafe would I be attracted to her?'. That can be an important factor for me. Beautiful Baroness Essex in a cafe @baronessessex.bsky.social

No-one appreciates a beautiful brunette like I do. One for the fans. Stunning Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

Another tribute to mark my 500 followers - thank you all, especially to all the Mistresses who follow me. Here is the wonderful woman who started it all for me. Trisha Adams known as Miss Trisha who introduced and guided me. If only she knew what she had started....

This says it all and encompasses my philosophy. We honour all women but true submission is reserved for Her - the special one in a million woman who encourages our soul to submit. It's beautiful when it happens.

Every so often someone catches my eye and I am transfixed. I met this beautiful Lady some years ago and she behaved like a true lady too. Life became complicated and I never went back which is something I regret. I am considering her beauty once again .... @hmqueensabrina.bsky.social

Rumi's writings are so insightful. As I procrastinate I centre in the feeling - what am I afraid of? Maybe disappointment, committing to someone who does not feel the same, not being able to follow through? Either way, while I wrestle with this I know that I need to set out soon.....

I just adore this gorgeous woman. I can't get her out of my head as hard as I try. Every time I look at her face....then there are the tik tok videos....the French accent... oh my days. The Goddess that is Mistress Femme Fatale @mistressffatale.bsky.social

An update on my Mistress search. I have cut my shortlist to 3. One is quite a distance from me - do I undergo a 2 hour journey there and the same back again? 2 are close to me - one is quite scary but beautiful. Do i overcome my fear? The other is beautiful but safe. Do I opt for the safe option?

In praise to this beautiful amazing woman who has every quality necessary in a Mistress as well as being a wonderful woman too. Mistress Femme fatale @mistressffatale.bsky.social

I have always been attracted to strong powerful and beautiful women. I just go weak and just want to serve them. Baroness Essex is one of them. She ticks every box @baronessessex.bsky.social

...and when you find someone utterly adorable you will sign up to pain with hopefully the reward of subspace.

..and there are lots of theories about subspace which is something I have experienced myself. One theory is that pain with pleasure increase Endorphins (the body's natural pain killers and this leads to an increase of euphoria or a feeling of a 'high'. All good stuff and your Domme should understand

Pain : why do we do it? I've had toothache, earache, gout, pain from surgery and none of us would volunteer to have some. Yet in BDSM we sign up to it. Why? Well the erotic administering of pain feels different and if he/she is worth it then you endure. It's also about neural pathways too......

Another one for the fans - the beautiful Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

Well, if Putins men faced The Baroness in Ukraine then they would surrender - who wouldn't? Ukraine's secret weapon beautiful Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

Now looking back i regret not pursuing my bliss enough. There is no place for shame. Get out there, do it, serve someone worth it, endure, suffer, Worship and just let go. Drown in the utter gorgeousness of it. Reject shame and realise how good you are. You are enough.

For far too long i ignored my desire, my inclinations, and need for kink. In my 20's I embraced Crossdressing and had a whole wardrobe of stuff. I tasted BDSM and all the sights, sounds, smells and sensations. It was a world I wanted then along came shame, conditions and 'should'.

Beauty personified. Fit, intelligent, bronzed and beautiful. Goddess Mistress Sabrina @hmqueensabrina.bsky.social

Who's this bloke i hear you ask? It's Sexton Blake, a fictional detective. Subject of numerous books and TV and film adaptations. His name is rhyming slang for 'fake' too. Plenty of Sextons on here. I used to work as an investigator in insurance fraud so I can spot you a mile away.

I do like a Lady in leather and latex (although perhaps not in this weather). Beautiful Goddess, Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

One for the fanclub - elegant beauty of Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

Another retro BDSM photo from way back. These were the kind of pictures that first inspired me to try BDSM. I have been fascinated ever since. It's a gorgeous wonderful world.

Bless you all.

So how is my search for a Mistress going? Well, I am in contact with some beautiful women who inspire me but they are all too far away apart from 2. I don't do online submission. The 2? Well both quite local but not sure if I am the type of sub they want. I keep looking.....

And finally one for the fans. I could never resist a woman in a nurses uniform. Beautiful Domina, Baroness Essex @baronessessex.bsky.social

And of course one very special woman who is in France at present. Beautiful Mistress Femme Fatale @mistressffatale.bsky.social

What do I look for in a Domme? Beauty, intelligence, strength (both physical and mental), a bold spirit, a sense of humour, creativity, openness and honesty, empathy and vulnerability. If I find them, then I will be in the presence of a Goddess.

This sums it up really. A submissive doesn't submit to just anyone. After all he is giving his soul to someone they trust, admire and above all has qualities that they respect. Erotic submission to someone you rate highly is powerful. I have messaged a number of Dommes since I joined who I respect.

It's beautiful on the south coast (near Eastbourne). I'll send some your way Miss.