KootenayRubyGirl

@kootenaygirl

I'm an IFS Coach/Relationship Coach from 🇨🇦🤍. Dragon born. Exvangelical. Former pastors wife. To love someone is to learn the song in their heart and sing it to them when they have forgotten it.

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KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 14

This girl (my highschool best friend) came on thursday and leaves today. She is a lot of fun and such a beautiful human. How she experiences life is so unique. I so apreciate her and her perspective. #KootenayLife #TheFiftyClub #HighschoolBesty

Two women taking a picture together. Obe is je with my long dark hair and big brown glasses the other is my old best friend Natascha who has glasses also and blond hair and its up in a bun.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 13

Todays breakfast brought to you by the letter F and number 50. #JulyBaby #KootenayLife #Decadent #Cake

A layered chocolate mousse cake and gluten free apple crumble on a white plate sitting on my lap.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 13

Are you safe too? #Epstein #PedophilePresident

A blue flag with the words underneath it saying Marked safe from forgetting about the Epstein files today..

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 13

Spent part of the day on the #SUP. Got to see a heron for the first time out here. #KootenayLife #OfficiallyFiftyToday

Me wraring my green octagon sun glasses and my black ball cap. Im on the lake on my paddle board wearing my swimsuit.

The top of a tall tree with a heron perched right on top trying to balance in the wind. Blue but cloudy sky in the background.

Lake and mountains and big blue sky with white whisky clouds.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 12

One of the coolest gifts I got for my birthday is this silly porch goose. (This isn't my actual one it's a online pic.) You can buy different outfits for it. Now I need to find her some leathers 😂 #FabulousFifty #KootenayLife

A life size porch goose decoration dressed in a yellow rain coat and rain hat.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 11

The dance floor is ready for tomorrow. 🥳😁 #Turning50 #Party #KootenayLife

An evening shot of a backyard featuring warm outdoor string lights draped from a wooden deck to a rustic barn. The glowing lights create long, vertical lens flares against a backdrop of tall evergreen trees and a deep blue twilight sky. To the left, a multi-level wooden deck with a railing is partially visible, while the barn on the right has a metal roof and a small decorative heart made of lights on its side.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 9

My chicken coop is looking rad. "Cluckingham Palace."

My chicken coop decorated on the outside with several old license plates from all over and a few funny signs. A big winfow that shows the reflection of the trees and you can see a hen sitting in the window.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 9

Sparkly Menace.... as a former pastors wife who spent way too long teaching in the Sunday school room glitter and menace belong together. 😂

An image with a dark olive-green background and white serif text that reads:"Good Morning,You Sparkly MenaceGo out there and confuse people with your confidence, your energy, and your refusal to explain yourself.It builds character... for them."At the bottom, it attributes the quote to Lisa Labrador and Bohemian Fig.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 9

She is just so adorable. Best cat ever. #MissFeona #CounsellingCat #LoveMaven #KootenayLife

A close up from below of Miss Feona, my black cat. Im sitting behind her but you can only see part of me.

Miss Feona, my black cat, snuggled into me out on the deck couch.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 7

5 days till I'm 50. The countdown is on. #50IsFabulous #GenX #LotsOfFuksToGive

Yellow irises in the background with the words "She is love, and a little fucking unstoppable."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 7

Every single time I see the orange parasite's face and marvel at the cursed energy his people worship.

The word of the day is:

FUCKACCINO

/FUHK-UH-CHEE-NOH/

(N.) A double shot of bullshit served with a side of "you've got to be kidding me."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 6

First day out paddle boarding on the lake. Beautiful day. #KootenayLife #SUP

Lake view with mountains in the background and a blue sky with a few tiny clouds.

Me with my heart sunglasses and an orange swimsuit covering "the girls." Long dark hair and blue sky in the background.

A huge stump laying on its side in a large flowing creek. The huge roots splayed out of the water on top and marsh land and mountains in the background with a nice blue sky.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 4

I must be almost 50 and deconstructed 😂. Indeed....it is a good time to be alive.

My skin is clear, my soul is at peace and my ass is fat. It's a beautiful time to be alive.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 4

Very baked. 😂🐈‍⬛️

Miss Feona, my black cat, sitting in a pile of catnip looking baked.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 4

I guess I'm rich. Plenty of land to drink tea skyclad. #KootenayLife

The image is a humorous meme featuring white, typewriter-style text overlaid on a moody, low-light photograph of a rural landscape at dusk.The text reads:"I don’t want... a bigger house. I want... enough land that I can drink coffee in my underwear without traumatizing the fucking neighbors."Visual Details:Background: A dark, open field with sparse trees and a fence line under a cloudy twilight sky.Subject: On the far right edge, a person is partially visible, holding a coffee mug and appearing to be dressed casually.Tone: The image captures a desire for extreme privacy and a simple, unbothered country lifestyle.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 4

This is it right here. So much to learn and understand about what it means to own (be accountable for) our own behaviour and let others be accountable for theirs. But also, to understand how those two mix in relationship and using communication well to bring clarity. #LoveMaven #IFS

An antique-style, black-and-white illustration of an elderly, bearded man with a crown of leaves sitting at the base of a gnarled, hollow tree. A younger woman rests her head in his lap, looking up at him. Superimposed white text on the right side reads: "The real flex is not hurting others to heal yourself and not hurting yourself to help others heal."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 4

On this Anerican holiday may the vibes be as good as this table full of catnip for Miss Feona. Happy 4th Of July my American friends. Hopefully he doesn't ruin it too badly.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 3

What would you like to know?

A sepia colored image with a wizard smoking his pipe and wearing round John Lennon shades while looking at an old 90s computer. It says "The Wizard approaches and will take your questions."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 3

This might sound funny to some but yesterday when I saw my shadow I felt such a beautiful fondness for her. I'm taking this as a sign of all the inner work Ive been doing. In the past seeing my shadow brought up a litany of things. Some of which didn't feel good. #IFS #IFSCoach #LoveMaven

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 3

Masturbation pants but with a tie to look professional? Temu tryna sell something I don't understand. 😂

A temu ad for a pair of pants that seem to be ooen on the sides of the thighs down to the knees. The liwe body model seems to be wearing a neck tie that almost goes down to the knees too. All on a red background with three snall squares showing possible colors of green, blue, red, to choose from.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 2

This is what Spring and Fall feel like for me because of the garden and all of life's other activities. But July is different. It's my birth month & favorite month of the year. I'm a sun baby, cancer sign with an aquarian moon, enneagram 2. July & relationship care/joy go hand in hand. 🩷

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 1

Happy Canada Day my fellow Canucks! May your day be filled with rest and some fun like the kitties are showing us here. What are you up to in your part of this beautiful country? #KootenayLife

Miss Feona, my black cat, sleeping all snuggled up on the couch.

My son and his girlfriends cat Lumi. They are sitting on the beach as they are camping. You can only see their legs and her coffee mug but in front of them is Lumi, their black and white cat, getting ready to zoom and have fun.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 1

Bahahahahahahaha! I am DECEASED. 😂😂😂😂💀😂😂😂😂

A surreal landscape featuring a starry cosmic sky with multiple colorful planets and moons. Below the celestial scene is a dark forest silhouetted against a glowing purple and pink horizon, overlooking a tranquil lake. The foreground is filled with a lush variety of brightly colored flowers, including large pink roses and purple daisies.Centered over the image is the humorous and irreverent text: "You wanna give up? Your anus hair didn't. No sunlight. No fresh air. Takes all the sh*t. Still growing." The image also contains "SHE FREAKS SHE SPEAKS"

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 1

Im forever calling meditation "brain laundry."

An oil painting-style image of a wizard with long hair, a pointed hat, and a dark cloak, sitting in a meditative pose on the edge of a mystical forest pond. A beam of light shines down from the trees onto a glowing ripple in the center of the water. Overlaid text at the top reads: "doing brain laundry (separating light from dark thoughts)."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jul 1

I remember those days. In our house it was fajitas 😁

A horror movie for toddlers, but it's just being asked to eat four peas at dinner.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jun 30

Making garlic scape salt while watching my go to show when I need to feel nostalgic. #Homesteading #LHOTP #Gardening

The image features a large stainless steel bowl filled with finely chopped garlic scapes. A small stainless steel measuring cup is nestled directly in the chopped scapes within the bowl. Behind the bowl, a white food processor is also filled with scapes. To the left, a clear glass jar is filled with a metal spoon resting inside. A worn baking sheet sits in the foreground, and the entire scene is set on a gray countertop. Little House On The Prairie plays on the big tv in the background.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jun 30

A spot on my wall close to home. I love this area. It feels spooky magical every time I walk through. So many writing prompts come alive when I see this. #KootenayLife #ForestLife #SpookyMagic

A forest scene with a dirt path winding through tall trees and lush green moss on the forest floor.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jun 30

Went on my long walk yesterday thinking I was probably gonna get stormed on. Trusty Hello Kitty umbrella and bear spray in hand. Thankfully I never needed to use them. I could hear the thunder in the distance the whole time but it never came my way. #KootenayLife #LoggingRoads #BearSpray

A scenic landscape view of lush green forested mountains under a dramatic, moody sky. In the foreground, dense green trees and bushes fill the lower portion of the frame. In the mid-ground, rolling mountain ridges layered in shades of blue and deep green recede into the distance. The sky is filled with heavy, dark grey storm clouds, with a bright patch of light breaking through on the left, casting a soft glow over the valley.

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jun 28

Oh...it gets better. Now its my fault he is stumbling. Narcissist much?

Jesse keeps blabbing at me."I do not judge without purpose. It is called the Razors Edge. I apologize. I'm sorry that you are i feel at peace love and free can't Handle Me. I just simply do not understand someone who is lend absorbed and chewed on the word of God knowing passages like if you cause one of these to stumble it would be better for a millstone to be thrown around tied around your neck and thrown into a sea than for you to cause one of these little ones to stumble and the fact that you have no regard for causing another to stumble tells me everything I need to know"

And my response. "So now its my fault you cant handle an adult conversation? 😂😂😂. Thats rich. Maybe pray about that for a while and see where your part is in it. If you keep poking and provoking someone eventually they will pot up a boundary and tell you to stop. You never asked my permission to even keep sending me songs. You just ASSUME.

BTW, I never once said the bible is "hogwash." I said that there is mythology to it and there are other forms of inspiration out there. Just because Ive spent enough time learning the bible and decided to learn other things so I could learn more deeply about god doesnt mean I think the whole book is bullshit. That was you again assuming. You chose to simply talk about the most obtuse subjects and didnt bother to inquire about anything else in my life. Its alwsys been a one way conversation and that has been you preaching AT ME."

KootenayRubyGirl@kootenaygirl· Jun 28

On June 28th, 1981, 45 years ago today, Terry Fox passed away. One of many great Canadians. May we all strive to be this kind of human. 🤍🇨🇦