secretary stacy

@secretarystacy

secretary, maid, damsel in occasional distress... personal slavegirl of Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. @damianachiphd.bsky.social sub coach at the Evolutionary Dominatrix® Academy

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secretary stacy@secretarystacy· 8d

i've been practicing walking a bit every day recently in a pair of pumps that have 6" stiletto heels and no platforms. i then spent this past weekend at a FemDom event in pumps that have 6" stiletto heels and 2" platforms - compared to the first pair, it was almost like walking around in sneakers!

two black, closed-toe pumps sit on the top of a wooden dresser, next to each other, heel to heel, with the toes pointed away from each other. both pumps have six-inch stiletto heels, but the pump on the left has no platform, while the pump on the right has a two-inch platform. a tape measure is set out in front of them, with the tape extended out just beyond the six-inch mark.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· 10d

the RISE! Power Summit in san diego was a really excellent event this past weekend! the saturday night masquerade was my favorite part of it. there's something profound about being part of this ceremonial, choreographed group experience! also, i don't think i was this blurry in real life...🖤

a tall, slender crossdresser with long, wavy dark hair is walking in front of a st. andrew's cross, and she is wearing a slave collar, a little black dress, a tightly cinched corset, black stockings, and black pumps with 6" stiletto heels, and she is carrying a single red rose in her left hand, while her right is behind her back.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jul 11

good times at the Chi Temple: red lights, and a red-light district outfit...♥️👠💋

a tall, slender crossdresser is taking a selfie while standing before a large mirror within a red-lit dungeon space - she has long, wavy dark hair and is wearing a shiny and short black minidress, a tightly cinched black corset, black stockings with a bit of her garter belt visible below her hemline, and black closed-toe pumps with very high stiletto heels.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 20

i wasn't wearing make-up, hence the cut-off at neck-level, but i got excited to try this newly re-laced corset that i haven't worn much with this dress that i also haven't worn much. i ended up really liking the combo, and i'm now looking forward to working it into my ongoing rotation! 🖤👠💋

a tall, slim crossdresser is shown from the neck down, standing in a corner while wearing a very figure-hugging red and black minidress, a dark collar, a very tightly cinched black corset, black stockings, and black closed-toe pumps with slight platforms and very high stiletto heels

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 17

i don't remember the professor ever crossdressing on gilligan's island, but if Mary Ann and/or Ginger made him do it, i might need to see that episode...

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 14

just before last night's play party at the Chi Temple - it was a really fun gathering, and this little black dress had me feeling slinky...🖤

a tall, slender crossdresser stands with her hands on her hips in a red-lit dungeon setting next to a rolling bondage table and in front of a st. andrew's cross - she has long, full, dark hair and is wearing a little black dress, a dark purple collar, a very tightly cinched corset, black stockings, and black open-toed pumps with very high stiletto heels.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 11

this is the first non-purple wig i've had in, like, 5 or 6 years! it feels very "charlie's angels" to me, and when i received a Jaclyn Smith comparison yesterday, i felt very validated!

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 6

DomCon 2026. there was no Academy booth this year, but i was still privileged enough to spend time with many Academy Dommes, and of course with Mistress Damiana! ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥 only about 11.5 months until DomCon 2027...

on an outdoor terrace, a beautiful Asian Dominatrix with long, black hair stands wearing a black sleeveless top, a red leather miniskirt, black stockings, and red, stiletto-heeled pumps, with one arm around Her kneeling slavegirl, a crossdressed sissyslut with long, dark hair, a tightly corseted waist, a black miniskirt, black stockings, and black stiletto-heeled pumps.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· May 16

i went out for a walk at sunset hoping to see some nature... i'd been picturing bats, some deer, maybe an early-rising owl...and while i got none of those, that doesn't mean that nature was withholding or being lazy! 🌈

above a small residential bit of street and a helping of various types of trees, a huge and vibrant rainbow stretches across the sky at sunset.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Apr 26

i got bondaged again! this time, through the nylon-only artistry of Mistress Siouxsie Seductrix! stockings and pantyhose only here, no rope at all...and hosiery bondage felt very on-brand for me. thank You, Mistress Siouxsie! 🖤

a slim crossdresser in a short skirt with visible stocking tops and garters, all black, is bent over a bondage cage topped in red leather, her upper body parallel to the floor. the girl's arms are behind her, sheathed in pantyhose and bound together with several stockings creating a sort of harness. a pair of red and black pumps with very high stiletto heels has been balanced on the girl's flat upper back such that if she moves too much, they will topple. mirrors hung on the wall in front of the girl reflect some of the dungeon space behind the girl, and a floor-stand off to her right is bristling with canes. everything is bathed in red light.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Apr 17

a rare rope bondage moment for me (and an early one, too - this was happening around 9:30am today...). [i had to take down a second photo i'd originally posted with this - the photographer was visible in one of the mirrors, and i hadn't gotten consent to post - the mirrors are a serious factor!]

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Oct 24

DomCon new orleans 2025! i'm hoping to see more of the city than just this booth while i'm in town, but this has been a great home base so far! 🖤

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Oct 5

i didn't feel like this outfit was okay for public wear, so i settled on dining in and snapping a few selfies instead...

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Sep 28

i'm settling back in after returning late friday night from a week in london. what an amazing trip, and it culminated in a midnight oil-burning visit to the FemDom loveliness of club pedestal, where i was privileged to accompany the incomparable Mistress Jezebel Chi and Goddess Roxy Red! ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥

two Beautiful, dark-haired Dominatrices stand on either side of a kneeling, crossdressed slavegirl at a FemDom event in london, each with a hand resting on the slavegirl's head.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Sep 4

after having been away for over a week in the very kink-free context of visiting my family, it's been very rejuvenating to get back into long days of full slavegirl-mode at the Chi Temple!

a tall, slender crossdresser i taking an iphone photo of herself in a tall mirror - she is wearing a black blouse, a light purple miniskirt, black stockings, and black pumps with very high stiletto heels. she has long, dark purple hair, dark burgundy lipstick, black nail polish, and a dark purple purse with metal studs decorating it. she is standing next to a large cage with silver bars and a top and interior of padded red leather. she is in front of a backdrop of long, red, floor-to-ceiling curtains.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Aug 4

a big thank You to Mistress Leanne and All/all who came together to create and present the RISE! mini-con in san diego this past weekend! 🙏 it was lovely to be immersed in the high protocol and community, and waiting on Mistress Damiana @damianachiphd.bsky.social at the masquerade was a high point!

a Beautiful, Dark-Haired Dominatrix in red is seated at a table in a large crowded space, and using Her phone to record Her slavegirl - a tall, purple-haired crossdresser in a little black dress and corset and a silver masquerade mask who is holding a plate of food in one hand, the other behind her back - as the slavegirl serves Her dinner.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jun 27

Mistress Damiana laced me so tightly into my corset last night that there was no gap left in the back whatsoever. 27" - i now foresee a new and smaller corset in my future...

a tall crossdresser is standing at a black upright folding screen in front of red curtains; she has long, wavy purple hair, and she's wearing a collar, a long-sleeved black top, a tightly cinched black corset, a black and white floral print miniskirt, black stockings, and black pumps with very high stiletto heels. she is looking up and off to her right, away from the camera, and has a submissive expression on her face.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Apr 26

i just realized that the phrase "dog and pony show" will have a very different potential meaning in the kink context than it would have out in vanilla-world...

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Apr 25

"what's really intense subspace like...? just speaking for myself, it's like a joyful, healing, super-hot version of despair...🙇🏻‍♀️❤️‍🔥🖤

a Dominatrix stands in a dark Bodysuit, Corset, Leather Gloves, and Thigh-High Boots with a large Strap-On jutting forth, and holds the chin of a kneeling, submissive purple-haired crossdresser in a collar, dark top, and corset, who is clearly awestruck by the Domme

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Apr 6

those four ragged ends used to be two smooth loops, but one of my cats treats unguarded laces of any kind like a lawnmower treats grass… on the plus side, re-lacing a corset from scratch is very instructional. also, Mistress Damiana cinched me in super-tight right after i did it! 🖤

a black corset lies open on a wooden floor, and the two loops used to tie it at its center have both been torn open, and are splayed about as four ragged ends.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Mar 24

the big FemDom Decadence event that Mistress @damianachiphd.bsky.social hosted out in the desert this past weekend was a huge success! it was my great Honor to be used by Mistress Damiana in various appropriately humiliating ways throughout, and to serve no less than 10 spectacular Dommes there! ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥

a beautiful, black-Haired Dominatrix is seated in a red chair before a backlit painting of a watery landscape and a fireplace, with a vase of peacock feathers on a wooden table beside Her, and She is fastening a collar around the neck of a crossdressed, corseted, purple-haired slavegirl who is kneeling submissively before Her.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 13

i love "dazed and confused" madly, but the hazing in it always felt like a missed opportunity to my kinkster self. instead, just take the paddles from the older boys, give them to the pretty girls, and let *them* paddle the younger boys. simple! that's how it plays out in my head canon, anyway...

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 11

before i ever went to a session, i assumed all commercial dungeons would have a waiting room with chairs like this, and a hopeful sub client would be required to perch on a dildo while filling out intake forms. i learned later that this is not the case (a girl can still dream, though!)...

a black leather bondage chair with cuffs and a dildo affixed to it, sitting in front of long red curtains

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 10

a rare not-nsfw moment from last friday's slut party at the Chi Temple. Mistress @damianachiphd.bsky.social documents my slavegirl life as She sees fit...🖤

me, crossdresser standing before red curtains in black mesh minidress, slave collar, black corset, and long purple hair with my hands behind my back and looking down below frame of photo

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 9

Mistress @damianachiphd.bsky.social and two other Dommes threw a slut party this past friday at the Chi Temple, and it was a great success...so great, in fact, that after staffing the event, this humble tramp is still trying to get back to standard energy levels two days later...

a pair of high heels sits on a wooden tabletop - the shoes are open-toed pumps with very high stiletto heels, and ombre, black up front fading into red in the back, while a silver necklace is looped around the heel of one shoe and draped over the other, with the pendant piece - a cursive script rendering of the word "whore" - clearly visible

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 7

the shoe/boot fetishist can't wait for the footwear to go on...while the foot fetishist can't wait for it to come off... #teamshoebootfetish

me, tall crossdresser seated in small rolling white chair, shown from torso down, legs crossed, wearing black corset, black miniskirt, black stockings, and red and black ombre open-toed pumps with very high stiletto heels

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Feb 4

the observer effect: me changing the way i walk in stiletto heels once it's after 10pm in order to lighten my footfalls so that my downstairs neighbor doesn't eventually come in through the balcony door one night with a pillowcase full of billiard balls and beat me senseless while i'm sleeping.

me, a tall, leggy crossdresser in corset, tight miniskirt, seamed stockings, and high stiletto heels, walking in my apartment toward the balcony door

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jan 31

i feel like "the league of extraordinary gentlemen" and "penny dreadful" were essentially the exact same concept...except that one was goofy and campy and not that great, and the other was grim and highbrow and awesome.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jan 23

when the food place with the dish i'm craving closes at 8pm, and i get there at...8:04.

secretary stacy@secretarystacy· Jan 20

today, Mistress Damiana said that for my "maintenance discipline" ( = pain to inspire rather than punish), She would "give me a break from the cane." this is what She used instead...and wow, this thing was way worse! it was like 3 canes all at once. at *least* 3. thank You, Mistress...🖤💙